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Genrich L. Krasko
VIKTOR FRANKL: THE
PROPHET OF MEANING*
For too long we have
been dreaming a dream from which we are now waking up: the dream that if we
just improve the socioeconomic situation of people, everything will be okay,
people will become happy. The truth is that as the struggle for survival has subsided, the
question has emerged: survival for what? Ever more people today have the means to
live, but no meaning to live for.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"The Unheard Cry for Meaning"
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March 2005 Viktor Frankl – one of the greatest minds of the 20th century:
the psychiatrist, psychologist and philosopher – would be 100 years old.
The life of Viktor Frankl was not a usual life. He lived three lives in one.
And the three of them were extraordinary and astounding.
A
humble medical student in the late 20th, a disciple of first Sigmund Freud, and
then Alfred Adler, Viktor Frankl eventually challenged their authoritarianism
and was expelled from both schools.
The
originality and deep humanism of his thinking had enabled him to develop his
own approach to human soul: he became founder of the so-called Third
Viennese School of Psychotherapy. Thrown into a Nazi death camp in 1942, he, by
his spiritual strength and his will to life, had managed to survive and thus
became a living proof of the main thesis of his philosophy: one can live only for
so long as one's life has a meaning.
Numerous
books written by Viktor Frankl after the liberation where he formulated and
discussed the logotherapy - his new approach to psychotherapy - were
translated into dozens of languages and sold throughout the world in millions
of copies.
To
be a prophet - to tell people the truth they would not like to hear - is a
difficult job. And yet, throughout the history of humankind, both ancient, and
more recent times had its own prophets. At the dawn of our civilization, the
Biblical Prophets, humble but rugged, dared to challenge both kings and the
mob. Too often they were stoned. Today we do not stone the prophets: we simply
do not listen to them. Besides, there were so many pseudo-prophets in the
Earth's history: how does one know that this one is real?
The
truth is that there is no way to know. The Biblical times have gone, and we do
not believe that today's prophets are God's messengers. Perhaps they are not.
Perhaps they are just the people who see beyond the easily seen, and understand
beyond the easily understandable. And they do tell truth we do not like to
hear.
Viktor
Frankl did not consider himself a prophet. But how else but prophetic would one
call Frankl's greatest accomplishment: over 50 years ago he identified the
societal sickness that already then was haunting the world, and now has become
pandemic?
This
"sickness" is the loss of meaning in people's lives. In one of his books
(MSUM, p.94. Abbreviations to references of Viktor Frankl's books are listed at
the end of the essay.), Frankl writes:
Unlike an animal, man is
no longer told by drives and instincts what he must do. And in contrast to man in former times,
he is no longer told by traditions and values what he should do. Now, knowing neither what he must do
nor what he should do, he sometimes does not even know what he basically wishes
to do. Instead, he wishes to do
what other people do... or he does what other people wish him to do...
In
this situation when people "loose ground" the old liberal social
philosophies also fail. The bitter
truth, says Frankl (UCM, p. 21), is that (italics by Frankl)
For too long we have
been dreaming a dream from which we are now waking up: the dream that if we
just improve the socioeconomic situation of people, everything will be okay,
people will become happy. The truth is that as the struggle for survival has subsided, the
question has emerged: survival for what? Ever more people today have the means to
live, but no meaning to live for.
In another book (PAE, p.122) Frankl notes:
What threatens
contemporary man is the alleged meaningfulness of his life, or, as I call it,
the existential vacuum within him. And when does this vacuum open up, when does
this so often latent vacuum become manifest? In the state of boredom.
Boredom is the main symptom of
this illness. To see if society is sick one has just to observe how deeply boredom – in its many
forms and manifestations – overflows peoplesí lives. Sometimes it becomes unbearable, and
then its companions: addiction, depression and aggression, become the threat not
only to the individual but also to society as a whole.
Just
a glimpse of the state of boredom among Americans – a significant segment
of American society – does not leave any doubts that the crisis of
meaning has overwhelmed this great nation.
Robert
Kaplan (1994), a noted American journalist gives a vivid picture of the existential
vacuum
that has engulfed America:
When voter turnout
decreases to around 50 percent at the same time the middle class is spending
astounding sums in gambling casinos and state lotteries, joining private health
clubs and using large amounts of stimulants and anti-depressants, one can
legitimately be concerned about the state of American society. We have become voyeurs and
escapists. Many of us don't play
sports but love watching great athletes with great physical attributes. It is because people find so little in
themselves that they fill their world with celebrities. The masses avoid important national and
international news because much of it is tragic, even as they show an unlimited
appetite for the details of Princess Diana's death.
An
important symptom of the sickness – and it can be observed not only in
America - is the willingness to give up self and responsibility, which Robert
Kaplan even sees as a ìsine qua non for tyranny.î
Perhaps
tyranny
is not something that threatens America today. However, the most serious problems in America, that haunt
the nation, are direct consequences of that boredom triad.
ïAddiction to illicit drugs is one
of the most pressing problems in America today. President George H. W. Bush, in 1989, called drugs ìthe
gravest domestic threat facing our nation.î Later, President Clinton termed drugs as Americaís ìconstant
curse.î The street cocaine market
in the United States has been stable for years and totals over $35 billion a
year. Approximately 1.5 to 2
million people is regular cocaine or crack cocaine users. Although, in percentages, the numbers
of ethnic minority drug users are higher, the market itself — and that is
what is important even if one only wants to stop the spread of drugs — is
sustained mainly by whites, middle and upper-middle class whites.
America
has spent and continues to spend hundreds of billions of dollars to stop the
supply of illicit drugs. But it is
the demand
for drugs that makes the problem so serious. In fact, it is the problem. NaÔve attempts to curb the demand, like the Just Say No
to Drugs!
Campaign launched in 1986 by the then First Lady Nancy Reagan, have miserably
failed.
Gambling
– through numerous state-supported lotteries, and legal and semi-legal
casinos spreading in America like mushrooms after rain – is pandemic. Other forms of addiction, among them
the addiction to video and computer games (especially among children), and to
the Internet, are also wide spread.
ïDepression has reached the
proportion of an epidemic in America. Some 20 million people suffer from depression. It has been accepted as something
unfortunate but ìnatural.î One in five children meets the government criteria
for mental health help. And depression among children grows at an astonishing
rate of 23% per year!
In
2001, three million American teenagers thought about committing suicide, and
one million actually attempted it.
According to medical authorities, in most cases the leading cause was
depression.
The
use of Prozac and other psychotropic drugs skyrockets. The pharmaceutical giant Eli Lilly
makes on Prozac over $1 billion annually.
And no voices are heard even hinting on the possible existential causes
of this epidemic.
ïAs
for aggression, it finds its realization in proliferation of violence
– both in the media (movies, TV, video and computer games) and real
life. It is a general belief in
this country that Hollywood deliberately engulfs America with violent
movies. But it is, again, the
problem of supply
vs. demand.
Why
do people like and want to watch this kind of movies and TV programs? The reason is exactly the same as that,
which, two millennia ago made the Roman mobs pack the Coliseums where gladiator
slaves killed each other, or were thrown to wild animals. This reason was and is boredom.
A
powerful factor that also feeds aggression in America is the proliferation of
firearms. It is now threatening
normal life in our cities and towns.
In my view, the desire to "bear arms" is not so much a result
of Americans' deep-laying mistrust of government as a potentially oppressive institution,
but as a response to high level of the boredom-born aggression in American
men – a vicious circle.
All
segments of our society have been penetrated by the existential vacuum. Frankl
also calls it "frustration of meaning." This sickness, rooted in the meaning of one's existence, is
nearly universal: as the post-industrial revolution spreads worldwide, it
infects affluent societies, welfare states, and even the poorest countries.
In
America the crisis is exacerbated by the fact that our education does not help
people to overcome the infection, but rather enhances its toll. Our younger
generation is the victim who suffers most from the crisis. The use of illicit
drugs by youths and juvenile crime are steadily on the rise in America today.
Their cause is almost without exception the meaninglessness in the lives of our
children.
In
fact, the very foundations of the American philosophy of life have been
threatened. The American Dream - the dream of affluence and success - does not
seems to promise happiness anymore. Acquiring wealth and success does not add
meaning to life: among the drug users there are more affluent than poor...
The
quintessence of this devastating crisis has been expressed in a statement by International
Network on Personal Meaning:
In modern society,
several forces and trends are converging in creating a crying need for meaning
and spirituality. Prosperity without a purpose leads to disillusion and
emptiness. Progress without a spiritual direction results in confusion and
uncertainty. A winner-take-all economy contributes to conflict and injustice.
Violence, conflict, addiction, depression, and suicide reflect an existential
crisis. The paradox of prosperity without happiness reflects an unfulfilled
spiritual hunger. The intense competition of the new economy results in an
increasing gap between the haves and the have-nots.
Frankl's
books have been published in dozens of languages. Only in the United States
were they sold in the millions of copies. But in America today Frankl's name is
known only to a handful of professionals, and his ideas are either unknown or
disregarded. They have not been given any serious discussion either on the
level of government and policy making, or on the level of "us, the
people," the millions who suffer most from that sickness which Frankl
diagnosed over half a century ago. And this is in a time when the sickness of
meaninglessness has taken on the proportions and scope of an epidemic.
Why?
Probably, because paving a way out of our crisis, the existential crisis, would require
fundamental social reforms, a radical change in our educational philosophy and
educational system in the first place, to which the numerous interest groups
would not agree without a fierce struggle. On the other hand, the populist
politics of our policy makers, on both sides of the aisle, prevents them from
doing anything that "we, the people" would not like. And the therapy
that would make the society healthy again may be painful...
A
dozen of institutions throughout the world keep the flame of Viktor Frankl's
ideas alive. Among them, the "hub:" Viktor-Frankl-Institut in
Vienna, Austria (www.logotherapy.univie.ac.at),
Viktor Frankl Institute of Logotherapy, Abilene, TX (www.logotherapyinstitute.org), and International
Forum for Personal Meaning, BC, Canada (www.meaning.ca). Hundreds of dedicated women and men,
most of them psychologists, are helping people to overcome the
"existential vacuum" in their souls and return to fulfilling and
meaningful lives. But their heroic efforts are not enough to quell this
devastating crisis. Our society needs, and needs very badly, the honest discussion
of the origin of this crisis of meaning, and the social conditions that are
feeding it everyday, no matter how painful this discussion may be.
This essay is about
Viktor Frankl—his life, his ideas and the legacy he has left.
VIENNA...
"There is only one Vienna"
A common phrase in
Vienna, c. 1781
In
the second half of the 19th century and the first decade of the 20th, Vienna,
the capital of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, was also a second cultural capital
of Europe, second only to Paris. It was a cultural Mecca and a center of
science.
It
was also a powerful economic magnet, attracting numerous immigrants. Among the
notable immigrants were composers Johannes Brahms and Gustav Mahler, the
founder of Zionism Theodore Herzl, and the great Sigmund Freud.
The
decline of the Empire, reaching its nadir after Austria's defeat in World War
I, was also the time of triumph and fame of the new school of psychiatry named
psychoanalysis. In 1920, the 64-year-old Sigmund Freud was the dominant and
most authoritative international figure on the scene of psychological science
and psychiatry.
Vienna
was boiling with multiple ideas, originating from the Freudian revolution in
psychology. Not only the university campuses, but also numerous discussion
clubs in schools were caught in this process of learning and discussion.
Passionately
absorbed by this sea of ideas was a young teenage boy named Viktor Frankl. Just
15 in 1920, he still remembered how his family, immigrants from Moravia, was on
the edge of starvation, begging for food at the farmers' market. The Frankls
could not afford an expensive private school for their son, but in a
Volkshochschule (free public school, attended mostly by children of poor
people), Viktor was an active speaker in youth and discussion clubs. He writes
in his autobiography (RCL): "More and more my speech exercises and school
papers became treatises on psychoanalysis. More and more I supplied my
schoolmates with information in this field." This was right after Freud
had published his epochal work "Beyond the Pleasure Principle." It
was on everybody's tongue...
"I
was still in high school" - recalls Frankl -" when the wish of my
early childhood to become a physician became focused, under the influence of
psychoanalysis, on becoming a psychiatrist." Actually, when the time of
decision came, Frankl for a while "toyed with the idea to turn to
dermatology or obstetrics."
Frankl
recalls that the final decision - to become a psychiatrist - came after a
friend of his, in their argument about the future, quoted from Kierkegaard:
"don't despair at wanting to become your authentic self."
A
few years later, as a university medical student, Viktor Frankl was a witness
and participant of the battle of the psychiatrists in the atmosphere that
"made Vienna a city of couches as much as a city of dreams."(W. B.
Gould, "Frankl: Life With Meaning.")
Ideologically,
psychiatry was not an untroubled and peaceful kingdom. In 1912 Freud expelled
from his inner circle - and, as a matter of fact, from his kingdom altogether-
his most talented follower, Alfred Adler. Adler later became the founder of the
so-called "The Second Viennese School of Psychotherapy" (the
"First" was the Freudian school).
As
a medical student, Frankl began to correspond with Sigmund Freud. "I sent
him material which I came across in my extensive interdisciplinary readings and
which I assumed might be of interest to him. Every letter was promptly answered
by him"(RCL). As a matter of fact, Freud personally presented Frankl's
paper of 1924 - his second scientific paper - to the International Journal of
Psychoanalysis.
In
spite of the fact that Frankl's psychoanalysis professors were two exceptional
followers of Freud, the young medical student began to drift away from the
"canonical" Freudism. He felt that Freud's "Pleasure
Principle" was lacking a human dimension, and began developing his own
theories that contradicted Freud's Principle. He also felt that the whole
Freudian philosophy was somewhat nihilistic. This feeling brought him into the
Adlerian camp.
Unlike
Freud, Adler saw an individual's freedom of choice as a fundamental factor in
the decision-making process. This idea became a starting point, and, in fact, a
cornerstone in Frankl's own theories. Ironically enough, history repeated
itself: Having been expelled by Freud 14 years before, Adler insisted on
Frankl's leaving his circle after the latter openly supported the dissenting
view of two of Adler's followers.
After
graduating from the university, Viktor Frankl became a practicing psychiatrist.
He passionately wanted to help people. Apart from taking patients, he was
spending a lot of time giving lectures and counseling. Since 1927 he had been
teaching a weekly class at the adult education school. For many years - until
the dreadful day when Frankl, together with his family and thousands of
Viennese Jews, was deported to a death camp - he worked at clinics for the
poor.
Seeing
hundreds of patients, watching the symptoms and development of neuroses, his
new approach had crystallized. He even suggested a method of treating some
neuroses, the so-called "no–genic neuroses," the ones to do with
frustration of man's spirit (no–s). Psychoanalysis gave way to a Meaning
Analysis.
This
approach, by 1929, grew into the whole philosophy that revolutionized both psychology
as a science and psychiatry as a branch of medicine. Frankl named his new
approach, logotherapy (logos is Greek for meaning) showing a new way of
treating neuroses and, in fact, exposing the origin of the many ills of
contemporary society.
In
his autobiography Frankl writes: "...as a psychiatrist, or rather a
psychotherapist, I see beyond the actual weaknesses... I can see beyond the
misery of the situation, the possibility to discover a meaning behind it, and
thus to turn an
apparently meaningless life into a genuine human achievement. I am convinced that,
in the final analysis, there is no situation, which does not contain the seed
of meaning. To a great extent, this conviction is the basis of logotherapy's
subject and system." (RCL; italics by Frankl).
Frankl's
school of thought was later named "The Third Viennese School of
Psychotherapy." In a nutshell, the difference among the three Viennese
Schools of Psychotherapy is as follows: the Freudian and Adlerian psychologies
are centered respectively on the "will to pleasure" and the
"will to power." Frankl argues that it is "the striving to find
a meaning in life" that "is the primary motivational force in
man" (PAE, p. 34). Moreover, Frankl claims that "Actually, 'pleasure
is not the goal of human striving but rather a by-product of the fulfillment of
such striving; and 'power' is not an end but a means to an end. Thus, the
'pleasure principle' school mistakes a side effect for the goal, while the
'will to power' school mistakes a means for the end" (ibid.). However, society gets
sick when the two latter "wills" take over: they bring society into a
state of "existential vacuum."
Here are the logotherapy's central affirmatives:
ïLife has meaning under all circumstances, even the most miserable ones.
ïOur main
motivation for living is our will to find meaning in life.
ïWe have freedom to find meaning in how we
think, in what we do, in what we experience, and even when we are faced with a
situation of unchangeable suffering.
ïWe are mind, body and spirit. These dimensions
of the self are interdependent. The key is the spirit. The spiritual core, and
only the spiritual core, warrants and constitutes oneness and wholeness; it
enables us to exercise our will to meaning, to envisage our goals, and to move beyond
our instinctual and sexual needs to self-transcendence
But
let us turn back. The year 1933. The Nazis had just taken over in Germany. But
it was still quiet in Austria, although the Nazi party became more and more
noisy... Vienna, Austria's capital was still the capital of world psychology
and psychiatry. The great Sigmund Freud was still a ruling emperor. But life
had changed. Anti-Semitism was on the rise and the annexation (Anschluss) of Austria by Germany
seemed imminent.
The
world of ideas and aspirations together with all hopes for the future collapsed
12 March 1938, the day of Anschluss, when Nazi Germany invaded Austria. Two days
later, Sigmund Freud's apartment and his university offices were searched and
his passport revoked. With great difficulty, and only after the interference of
the international scientific community and the American President personally,
was the 82-year-old and terminally ill Sigmund Freud allowed to leave Austria.
It
was the collapse of Viktor Frankl's world also. Since 1937 Frankl had had his
own practice as a specialist in neurology and psychiatry, at the same time
continuing to work in hospitals and youth counseling centers. Gradually he
became renowned internationally. He was being invited to give lectures at international
conferences throughout Europe.
However
the future looked grim. Viktor was thinking of emigrating, but was hesitant. He
hoped, that as a psychiatrist, he would be able to support his parents, his
younger sister and brother and his fiancÈe. But, he also knew that in spite of
his international standing, nobody would be able to defend them against
possible Nazi persecution. Eventually he submitted an application for an
immigration visa to the American embassy - a visa he was not destined to use.
That
is how Victor Frankl recalls those dramatic events in his Autobiography.
"I had to wait for years until my quota number came up that enabled me to
get a visa to immigrate to the United States. Finally, shortly before Pearl
Harbor, I was asked to come to the US consulate to pick up my visa. Then I
hesitated: Should I leave my parents behind? I knew what their fate would be:
deportation to a concentration camp. Should I say good-bye and leave them to
their fate? The visa was exclusively for me"
When
he came home that day he found his father in tears. "The Nazis have burned
down the synagogue," said the father and showed him a fragment of marble
he had salvaged. That piece of marble had just one letter of the Ten
Commandments engraved on it, the beginning of the commandment "Honor thy
father and thy mother." Frankl called the American embassy and canceled
his visa. "It may be that I had made my decision, deep within, long
before, and the oracle was in reality only the echo of the voice of my conscience,"
concludes Frankl.
As
a part of the infamous "final solution" - complete extermination of
the Jews from the face of the earth - the turn of the Austrian Jews came in
1942. Dr. Joseph Fabry, a most distinguished student and disciple of Viktor
Frankl in the United States, and the translator of his Autobiography into
English, writes[1]: "The
deportation of the Jews from Austria was no different from that from other
countries, perhaps more severe because of the innate anti-Semitism of many
Austrians. Up to 1942 the deportations were somewhat selective and exceptions
were made for a certain class of Jews or individuals, such as doctors in the
Jewish Hospital (Frankl), nurses there ([Frankl's wife] Tilly), or people
recruited to help clean up apartments of deported Jews (Tilly's mother), and
often their immediate families. From the Wansee Conference on (1942) where the
"final solution" was decided, there were no more exceptions."
The
Frankl family was deported to the Theresienstadt camp in July 1942... Almost
all the family perished: Frankl's father died in Theresienstadt; his mother was
gassed in Auschwitz; his wife Tilly died in Bergen-Belsen after she had been
liberated by the British; his younger brother died in a branch camp of
Auschwitz, working in a mine; only his sister survived the camps and later
emigrated to Australia.
Frankl's
experience, as a death camp prisoner, was described in his first book written
after the liberation. First published in 1946 in Vienna as "Ein Psycholog
Erlebt das Konzentrationslager", and later translated into many languages
and sold in millions of copies. The English translation: Viktor Frankl, Man's
Search For Meaning.
(In this essay I reference the latest edition as MSM).
Today,
after over half a century of that world tragedy, the holocaust, the tragedy that the
human brain simply refuses to comprehend, thousands of accounts of people's
first encounter with the Nazi extermination machine are known. And yet, Viktor
Frankl's account is special. His is that of a scientist, a doctor, a soul healer:
almost devoid of emotion but full of sober analysis and meaning.
The
generation of Holocaust survivors is gradually leaving this earth, taking with
them the agony of their memories. For us, who have never felt what it was to be
jammed into a cattle car slowing down at an obscure place named
"Auschwitz," a semi-mad woman screaming: "Fire, I can see
fire!" (Elie Wiesel, "Night"), there is only imagination. The gift of conscience
that does not allow us to forget, that reminds us how fragile our civilization
is and how thin is the layer of our humane culture. Frankl's account is extremely
important for us, who are distressed that that layer of humanity in our
civilization is so thin. It is a source and a symbol of hope that we, the humans,
can be superior beings, can challenge the animal in us, and thus win against all
odds.
...The
train, overloaded with humans about to lose their human identity in exchange
for a tattooed number (if lucky enough not to turn into a burst of black smoke
in the crematorium chimney); German shepherds and SS men with submachine-guns;
the "selection": those on the right will get their numbers and will
live, and, at last, the real shower and striped "uniform," whose
previous owner does not exist any more... Frankl writes: "While we were
waiting for the shower, our nakedness was brought home to us: we really had
nothing except our bare bodies - even minus hair; all we possessed, literally
was our naked existence. What else remained for us as a material link with our
former lives? We knew that we had nothing to lose except our so ridiculously
naked lives" (MSM, pp. 33-34).
That is what Frankl writes in his autobiography:
"I have never published what happened at the first selection at the
Auschwitz train station. I have never published it, simply because I still am
not sure whether I perhaps only imagined it. This was the situation: Dr.
Mengele turned my shoulders not to the right, that is to the survivors, but to
the left, to those destined for the gas chamber. Since I couldn't make out
anyone I knew who was sent left, but recognized a few young colleagues who were
directed to the right, I walked behind Dr. Mengele's back to the right. God knows
where the idea came from and how I had the courage." This episode has an
almost mystical flavor: as if the MISSION Viktor Frankl was destined to fulfill
had been secured and enforced.
Among
the things that Frankl left behind, was the manuscript of his book on the
foundations of logotherapy - his first book - hidden in the inner pocket
of his coat, of all the material things the dearest to him. During the endless
two and a half years of his imprisonment, page-by-page, chapter-by-chapter, he
reconstructed his book in his memory. The book: Ÿrztlische Seelsorge (The Doctor and the Soul: From Psychotherapy
to Logotherapy)
- I reference it as DAS - was published after the war, translated into nine
languages and in 57 editions.
In
the Introduction to the book Frankl writes: "Life is a task. The religious
man differs from the apparently irreligious man only by experiencing his
existence not simply as a task, but as a mission. That means that he is also
aware of the taskmaster, the source of his mission. For thousands of years that
source was called God"(ibid. p. xv). This feeling of an important mission to be fulfilled, of the
responsibility before himself, his family (he did not know that he would never
see his parents, brother, sister and wife again), and his fellow prisoners
never left Frankl. This is that MISSION, that was with him all his life, till
the very last breath. Viktor Frankl passed away in Vienna on September 2, 1997.
AUSCHWITZ...
Our generation has come
to know man as he really is: the being that has invented the gas chambers of
Auschwitz, and also the being who entered those gas chambers upright, the
Lord's Prayer or the Shema Yisrael on his lips.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"Psychotherapy and Existentialism."
A
Freudian man, having been put into conditions of endless suffering and
deprivation would have had to turn into an animal, with the lowest possible
instincts taking over the whatever "civilized" and humane had been
implanted during the previous life. Too often that was the case in the Nazi
concentration camps. People betrayed each others, or stole precious food from
their comrades, even when that could hasten the unfortunate's death - all the
means were good if they helped to save their own lives. And yet, in his account
of the psychology of the concentration camp (Man's Search for Meaning, MSM) Viktor Frankl
gives quite a few examples of human behavior that disprove Freud's theory.
They
do not, in fact, quite disprove. Those examples rather prove that one can
elevate oneself, rise from that abyss of the animal to the heights of the human. "In the
concentration camp, in this living laboratory and on this testing ground, we
watched and witnessed some of our comrades behave like swine while others
behaved like saints. Man has both potentials within himself; which one is
actualized depends on decisions but not on conditions" (p. 157).
In
his book Frankl again and again quotes Nietzsche's words: "He who has a why
to live
for can bear with almost any how." If one understands the why of one's existence, one
will be able to cope with the how, no matter how impossible that would seem.
Understanding the why simply meant that people could find a meaning in their
sufferings, and even probable death. "It can be said that they were worthy
of their sufferings; the way they bore their suffering was a genuine inner
achievement. It is this spiritual freedom - which cannot be taken away - that
makes life meaningful and purposeful" (p. 87). If, on the other hand,
people were unable to take that challenge, turning their lives into an inner
triumph; if they believed that life was over, that all the real life opportunities
had disappeared for good, then their days were numbered: they vegetated,
progressively sliding down towards the imminent end.
"Under
the influence of a world which no longer recognized the value of human life and
human dignity, which had robbed man of his will and had made him an object to
be exterminated (having planned, however, to make use of him first - to the
last ounce of his physical resources) - under this influence the personal ego
finally suffered a loss of values. If the man in the concentration camp did not
struggle against this in a last effort to save his self-respect, he lost the
feeling of being an individual, a being with a mind, with inner freedom and
personal value" (p. 70).
The
understanding of the new "why" did not come easily to those people.
Frankl recalls one of the first lessons, given to them, newcomers in Auschwitz,
by an already "seasoned" inmate; "Don't be afraid! Don't fear
the selections! But one thing I
beg of you...shave daily, even if you have to use a piece of glass to do
it...even if you have to give your last piece of bread for it. You will look
younger and the scraping will make your cheek ruddier. If you want to stay
alive, there is only one way: look fit for work" (p. 38). Those who could
not find the inner strength to cope with the how became doomed.
That
victory over inhuman suffering seems almost unbelievable today, half a century
later, when entertainment and pleasure are the most important components of
people's lives. But it was a real triumph of human spirit, another proof of
that which God made of us was good.
In
my view, that Frankl's book - at least those one hundred pages of the
concentration camp chapter - must be read by everyone who is trying to
understand the why
of our so comfortable and safe life. In a new school curriculum, I would
recommend this book for our teenagers as one of the most important textbooks.
...A
long column of inmates, the walking skeletons, suffering from hunger,
exhaustion, and, on the top of everything, edema of their legs and feet. Some
do not have socks - their frostbitten and chilblain feet are so swollen, that
there is no space for socks, even if they had them... Suddenly, the man
marching next to Frankl whisper: "If our wives could see us now! I do hope
they are better off in their camps and don't know what is happening to
us." Frankl continues: "And as we stumbled on for miles, slipping on
icy spots, supporting each other time and again, dragging one another up and
onward, nothing was said, but we both knew: each of us was thinking of his
wife" (p. 56).
Thoughts
of their loved ones were an important component of that will to meaning that enabled people to
survive. .îFor the first time in my life I saw the truth, as it is set into
songs by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The
truth is that love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which man can
aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and
human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through
love and in love.
I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss,
be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved."(p.
57; italics by Frankl). In that marching column, and on hundreds of other occasions
when Frankl and his comrades were uniting in thoughts with those they loved,
they did not even know if they were alive. "I knew only one thing - which
I have learned well by now: Love goes very far beyond the physical person of
the beloved."(p. 58).
This
escape into the past from the emptiness, spiritual poverty and physical
suffering of the inmates' existence was possible only due to the enormous
intensification of their inner life. Of much greater importance for acquiring a
meaning, in comprehending the why of one's existence, was one's ability to find
both hope and strength in the future, to find a goal to which one could look
forward. "The prisoner who had lost faith in the future - his future - was
doomed. With his loss of belief in the future, he also lost his spiritual hold;
he let himself decline and became subject of mental and physical decay"
(p.95). Frankl recalls, how, in the moments of frustration with the current
situation, overwhelmed with thoughts of trivial things, like where to find a
piece of wire to substitute for a rotten shoe lace, he forced himself into
thoughts about his future after the liberation. He saw himself standing under
bright lights in a lecture hall, before a friendly audience, and giving a
lecture on the psychology of the concentration camp. The manuscript of his
first book on logotherapy, his new theory and method, had been lost with his
coat upon arrival in Auschwitz. At the very first opportunity he began
reconstructing the manuscript. He writes in his Autobiography (Recollections -
RCL) "In my own mind, I am convinced that I owe my survival, among other
things, to my resolve to reconstruct my manuscript. I started to work on it
when I was sick with typhus and tried to keep awake, even at night, to prevent
a vascular collapse. For my 40th birthday an inmate had given me a pencil stub
and "organized" a few small SS-forms. On their empty backs, still
having high fever, I scribbled shorthand notes which I hoped would help me
reconstruct the Ÿrztlische Seelsorge."
For
a concentration camp inmate, to lose faith in the future was a tragedy,
resulting in death. That happened quite suddenly, in the form of a crisis. Its
symptoms were familiar to the inmates, and its consequences were unavoidable.
People knew "who was going to be the next."
By
the end of war, the loss of faith in the future took an almost mystical form.
Frankl recalls that a friend of his, a fairly well known composer and
librettist, told him in February, 1945, that he had had a dream, in which a
voice had told him the exact date of their liberation: March 30th. At that time
the man was still full of hope, and believed that the prophecy was true. The
promised day approached, but no signs of imminent liberation were seen. On
March 29th, he developed a high fever. On the day of the prophecy, March 30th,
he became delirious and lost consciousness. Next day he was dead. To Frankl,
and to the camp doctor there was no doubt: he had died of typhus. "To
those who know how close the connection is between the state of mind of a man -
his courage and hope, or lack of them - and the state of immunity of his body
will understand that the sudden loss of hope and courage can have a deadly
effect. The ultimate cause of my friend's death was that the expected
liberation did not come and he was severely disappointed. This suddenly lowered
his body's resistance against the latent typhus infection. His faith in the
future and his will to live had become paralyzed and his body fell victim to
illness - and thus the voice of his dream was right after all" (p. 97).
That
case of an "unexplained" death was not a unique event. Between
Christmas, 1944, and the New Year of 1945, the death rate in Frankl's camp
increased beyond all possible expectations: and this is against the background
of no visible deterioration of either working or living conditions in the camp.
"It was simply, that the majority of the prisoners had lived in the naÔve
hope that they would be home again by Christmas. As the time drew near and
there was no encouraging news, the prisoners lost courage and disappointment
overcame them. This had a dangerous influence on their powers of resistance and
a great number of them died" (p. 97).
Both
the past
and the future
of the prisoner were instrumental in his or her survival in a concentration
camp. What about the present? The present was filled with suffering, both
physical and spiritual. But for somebody who had already acquired the strength
and inner freedom even that dreadful present became full of meaning.
Perhaps
some of the prisoners who had been religious in their previous lives lost
faith. But in those who had not lost the faith, or had even just acquired faith
in the camp, religious feelings were "the most sincere imaginable. The
depth and vigor of religious belief often surprised and moved a new arrival.
Most impressive in this connection were improvised prayers or services in the
corner of a hut, or in the darkness of the locked cattle truck in which we were
brought back from a distant work site, tired, hungry and frozen in our ragged
clothing" (p. 54). Years
after the liberation, Frankl wrote (MSUM, p. 19): "The truth is that among
those who actually went through the experience of Auschwitz, the number of
those whose religious life was deepened – in spite of, not because of,
this experience – by far exceeds the number of those who gave up their
belief."
Art
existed in the camps. Tired, hungry, and frozen people composed music, drew
pictures, and wrote poetry. There were even makeshift "concerts,"
with good music, songs, and even humor.
Against
all odds, the aesthetic feeling, the ability to see the beautiful in nature,
had not disappeared. An exhausted man might draw the attention of a friend
working next to him to a view of the setting sun through the trees of a winter
forest. Frankl recalls: "One evening, when we were already resting on the
floor of our hut, dead tired, soup bowls in hand, a fellow prisoner rushed in
and asked us to run to the assembly grounds and see the wonderful sunset.
Standing outside we saw sinister clouds glowing in the west and the whole sky
alive with clouds of ever-changing shapes and colors, from steel blue to blood
red. The desolate gray mud huts provided a sharp contrast, while the puddles on
the muddy ground reflected the glowing sky. Then, after minutes of moving
silence, one prisoner said to another, 'How beautiful the world could be!'"(pp. 59-60;
italics by Frankl).
But
perhaps the most important feature of the present in the inhuman
conditions of the concentration camp was the feeling of responsibility that was so strong in
the inmates who had not lost their inner freedom: the responsibility for their
future, their loved ones, and their fellow prisoners.
New
regulations were issued by the camp authorities: death for any even petty
violations of the regime that could be interpreted as sabotage. A few days
before a semi-starving prisoner had stolen a few pounds of potatoes. Many
prisoners knew who the "burglar" was. The authorities threatened that
if the guilty man was not given up, the whole camp would starve for a day.
"Naturally, 2,500 men preferred to fast." It was not quite natural in
those conditions. Just imagine: there was not a single man who decided to
betray his comrade, although a reward - some benefits, perhaps extra food or
easier work could have made a difference in the life-death race.
Frankl writes (MSM, p. 52): "Sigmund Freud
once said, 'Let us attempt to expose a number of most diverse people uniformly
to hunger. With the increase of the imperative urge of hunger all individual
differences will blur, and in their stead will appear the uniform expression of
the one un-stilled urge.' In the concentration camps, however, the reverse was
true. People became more diverse. The beast was unmasked - and so was the
saint. The hunger was the same but people were different. In truth, calories do
not count."
And,
of course, the strong helped the weak. On quite a few occasions Frankl himself
tried to do his utmost to strengthen his comrades' resistance to the physical
and moral decay and degeneration that the camp existence promulgated: from
un-intrusive conversations to collective psychotherapeutic (in fact, logotherapeutic) sessions, at the
outcome of which people thanked him with tears in their eyes. (pp. 103-105).
Although
Frankl modestly notices that "...only too rarely had I the inner strength
to make contact with my companions in suffering and that I must have missed
many opportunities for doing so"(p. 105), he was doubtless one of those
who "...walked through the huts comforting others, giving away the last
piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient
proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the
human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to
chose one's own way" (p. 86).
In
order to prove that something is not, one has to prove that every possible example of
that something is not. While, if one wants to prove that something is, just one example would
be enough. Viktor Frankl's account of his experience as a concentration camp
prisoner gives these examples, and not just one, but many. The examples of
people whose will for meaning was stronger than death.
MEANING...
There is a meaning in
life, ... it is available to everyone and, even more, ... life retains its
meaning under any conditions. It remains meaningful literally up to its last
moment, up to one's last breath.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"The Unheard Cry For Meaning.
Meaning...
What is it? In his Autobiography (RCL) Frankl writes: "As early as 1929 I
developed the concept of three groups of values, three possibilities to find
meaning in life - up to the last moment, the last breath. These three
possibilities are: 1) a deed we do, a work we create, 2) an experience, a human
encounter and love, and 3) when confronted with an unchangeable fate (such as
an incurable disease, an inoperable cancer) a change of attitudes. In such
cases we still can wrest meaning from life by becoming witness of the most
human of all human capacities: the ability to turn suffering into human
triumph."
These
three "possibilities" to find a meaning seem to be so simple and easy
to understand. But a meaning cannot be learned or taught, or shared. As a
matter of fact, there is no such a thing as a universal meaning for everyone.
"Meaning" is always personal, the meaning. In other
words, life gives the individual an assignment, and one has to learn what that
assignment is. But what is important," the true meaning of life is to be
discovered in the world rather than within man or his own psyche, as if it were
a closed system."(MSM p. 133). Frankl stresses that finding a meaning in
life inevitably requires what he calls "self transcendence" - rising
above one's own self: "being human always points, and is directed, to something,
or someone, other than oneself - be it a meaning to fulfill or another human
being to encounter.... The more one forgets himself - by giving himself to a
cause to serve, or another person to love - the more human he is and the more
he actualizes himself." In another book (PES, p. 24) Frankl writes:
"What man is, he ultimately becomes through the cause which he has made
his own."
And
here are the three possibilities:
"Work We Create"
We
spend over a third of our time working. To most people a job is a necessary and
unavoidable way of earning one's living. Americans work hard. If you wish, it
is an American tradition that began first with the colonists and then was taken
over by the generations of immigrants, who came to America in search of a new
and better life. The American Dream of affluence and success has been driving
millions of people to work hard.
At
the beginning of the 21st century, working hard, for most of the people, does
not mean merely fighting for survival any more. The American middle class has
emerged; the majority of Americans live in their own homes. Even the American
"poor" are believed to be "the richest poor in the world."
In spite of accusations fired at each other by politicians, the living standard
of an average American family is higher than that in Europe, although it is
steadily going down.
Americans
are still working hard, but their work has lost the original existential
meaning of necessary effort for survival. Americans still believe that any work
is good that brings in money - and the more, the better. But this belief is no
longer valid. It has been destroyed by the boredom of a dull, unfulfilling
job. And yet not many understand that only that job is good that is fulfilling. In addition, a job has
become more and more difficult to find, and losing a job becomes a tragedy. But
this boredom does not originate from the jobs themselves: it is a result of our
attitude.
Being unemployed is a tragedy because a job is
the only source of livelihood for most people. However, from the existential
point of view, "The jobless man experiences the emptiness of his time as
inner emptiness, as an emptiness of his conscience. He feels useless because he
is unoccupied. Having no work, he thinks, life has no meaning" (DAS, p. 121).
As a contrast to that feeling, in the same book Frankl quotes an ad in a London
newspaper of a man for whom work is a mode of creative existence:
"Unemployed. Brilliant mind offers its services completely free; the
survival of the body must be provided for by adequate salary" (p. xviii)
Logotherapy claims that work, a
process that takes so much time from our life, may be a source of meaning,
direction, fulfillment, for many an important source of meaning, for some the
only source.
The
job becomes that well of meaning and fulfillment, if it is creative. The word itself means
creating something new that did not exist before: not only in the sense of
revolutionizing technologies, discovering new principles in science, or
creating an art masterpiece, but most often just participating in a modest and
unambitious process of gaining knowledge, trust, kindness, love... This
quality is of a fundamentally subjective character. The job does not contain
creativity in itself. A white-color job can be boring, and a job of a volunteer
helping kids to cross the street fulfilling and exciting. The one who is doing
the work can make it unique: creative and interesting, or dull and boring.
It is only a matter of attitude.
For
a job to be creative, one does not have to have a high IQ or to be highly
educated. One has only to find the meaning in that job, make it a part of one's
personality. The only role that education plays in this process is facilitating
the finding of this unique meaning. One's horizons are wider, one's
understanding of the world is better, and oneís identification with society is
deeper through education.
I spent a 1979-80 academic year in Germany doing
research at a university. Every day, at about 5 P.M., I heard a knock on my
office door and an elderly lady janitor entered with a broad smile and a
"Guten Abend, Herr Professor." Then she began her daily routine:
cleaning my office. She knew that her job was extremely important, for without
it, we, the "egg-heads" of the fifth floor, would perish in the dirt
and disorder of our offices. She lifted every single sheet of paper on my desk
and dusted beneath. Whatever papers were scattered around were carefully piled
up and secured on the desk corner. I did not speak German, she did not speak
English, but we both knew that what she was doing was important. Of course I could live
without the daily dusting of my papers; she could not. And I agreed with her.
From the existential point of view we - "the egg-heads" in the
offices around, and herself - were equal: we each did the work we loved and
believed to be important. And, whenever a party was held she was always a part
of it: a loved and respected member of the fifth floor community...
This
role of education is important. In my view, the main factor that has
exacerbated our crisis is the degradation of our educational system. It simply
has been failing to raise an individual above the level of immaturity. And maturity means meaningfulness.
That is why a way out of the crisis, quite possibly the only way, is in a
dramatic improvement in our educational system.
Today
creative and fulfilling work is the destiny of only the few. To the rest it is
an unpleasant and boring duty. 50 million Americans hate their jobs! Perhaps the
most regretful aspect of our life is that we teach our children that a boring
job is all right. We encourage them to start working as early as possible with
the only purpose: learning how to make money. Approximately 4 to 5 million
teenagers work part time during school year; I wonder if anybody studied if our
working children were among those 50 million...
However,
even a boring job has an important quality: it fills time. When even this dull
and boring work is over (and the work may be difficult, requiring the
concentration of both mental and physical energy) an individual feels lost.
Frankl, in one of his books, describes a "Sunday neuroses" - people
do not know how to kill time. Typically, two options are used: shopping and the
reliable and never failing TV. Frankl writes (DAS, p. 127): "...people who
know no goal in life are running the course of life at the highest possible
speed so that they will not notice the aimlessness of it. They are at the same
time trying to run away from themselves - but in vain. On Sunday, when the
frantic race pauses for twenty-four hours, all the aimlessness,
meaninglessness, and emptiness of their existence rises up before them once
more."
Of
course, there are jobs that are very difficult to make "creative,"
among them jobs requiring the monotonous repetition of a similar operation,
such as a job at a conveyer belt. With the development of new computerized
technologies and robotics, those jobs will gradually disappear, giving people
virtually unlimited opportunities to realize their innate creativity. This,
however, will require an educational level for which the American school today
does not prepare.
With
the advancement of technology, the amount of leisure time is increasing. This
is both a curse and a blessing: It is a curse, if an individual does not have a
task,
a mission
in his or her life. Then any means of killing that leisure time will be good:
from meaningless TV watching and video and computer games to gambling and
drugs. It will be a blessing if a mission does exist. Then it will require the
concentration of all the individual's abilities, and will need more time than
one can normally afford: no time will be enough. A good education will give an
individual the basis, the foundation for the future meaningful and happy life.
"Human Encounter and Love"
The
basis of meaningfulness of human existence is one's singularity, one's uniqueness. But an individual can
actualize the creative values of his/her personality only through the external
world: through something done for people. In response, the world, "the
community" confers meaning upon the individual's uniqueness and
singularity. In fact, the external world becomes an indispensable part of one's
personality.
It
enters one's personality in two ways: through the "impersonal" effect
of Nature, Books, Music, Art and Culture in general (recall the role of these
factors in strengthening the will to survive in the Nazi concentration camps!),
and through encounters with people.
Martin
Buber, a great Jewish religious philosopher, once said: "Behind every
meeting, every encounter - responsibility." To those who agree with Buber,
there is only one answer to the question "Am I my brother's keeper?"
- spewed by Cain in self defense: "Yes, I am the keeper of my brothers -
all over the world!"
The
fact that most people do not think that way does not mean that the idea of
"global responsibility" is idealistic delirium and nonsense.
Thousands and thousands of young men and women, in 1936-37, left their families
and jobs and joined the International Brigades in Spain to fight Fascism. Too often
those brave people were accused of being Communists. Not all of them were.
George Orwell, the author of immortal "1984," who hated all kinds of
totalitarianism, fought in Spain. His book: "Homage to Catalonia" is
a legacy of those years. The world was indifferent, but those people knew that
Spain was just the beginning. They were right: the Second World War erupted
just a couple of years later.
After
Pearl Harbor, thousands upon thousands of young Americans volunteered for the
Armed Forces to fight the Nazis, although they could have gone on with their
studies or with their civilian work important for the military. And two decades
later, thousands upon thousands of Americans of the next generation joined the
"Peace Corps" to fight disease and illiteracy in the Third World.
In
the everyday life of most people the idea of "global responsibility"
- even if the individual does subscribe to it - is pushed off by small deeds
and smaller responsibilities. And it is all right as far as the
responsibilities exist. But too often the feeling of responsibility - in
encounters with people - is frustrated. It is only partly to be blamed on the
individual. Erich Fromm, one of the greatest psychologists of the 20th century,
wrote in his immortal book "The Art of Loving:" "From birth to
death, from Monday to Monday, from morning to evening - all activities are
routinized, and prefabricated. How should a man caught in this net of routine
not forget that he is a man, a unique individual, one who is given only this
one chance of living, with hopes and disappointments, with sorrow and fear,
with the longing for love and the dread of the nothing and of
separateness?" (p. 14)
This
is exactly the existential vacuum that Viktor Frankl is discussing in his books.
But it is up to the individual to escape from this vacuum into the freedom of
meaning. Then "the nothing" and "the separateness" will
disappear, giving way to constructive and creative encounters with people, with
their "hopes and disappointments, sorrow and fear."
Love,
the main object and concern of Erich Fromm's book, is something that cannot be
compared in its importance to any other existential category in human life,
except, perhaps death. It has been the object of discussion and analysis of the
greatest philosophers and scientists since the human race has distinguished
itself from the animal horde. Human poetry is almost exclusively about love.
The
great Sigmund Freud attempted to reduce love to elementary instincts
originating from the Pleasure Principle. Viktor Frankl returns to love its human,
existential
character.
Discussing
the meaning
of love Frankl writes (DAS, p. 135): "Loving represents a coming to a
relationship with another as a spiritual being. The close connection with
spiritual aspects of the partner is the ultimate attainable form of
partnership. The lover is no longer aroused in his own physical being, nor
stirred in his own emotionality, but moved to the depths of his spiritual core,
moved by the partner's spiritual core. Love, then, is an entering into direct
relationship with the personality of the beloved, with the beloved's uniqueness
and singularity."
Frankl
stresses that, although love is as primary a phenomenon as sex, normally sex is
only a mode of expression for love, its culmination. "Sex is justified,
even sanctified, as soon as, but only as long as, it is a vehicle of love. Thus
love is not understood as a mere side-effect of sex: rather, sex is a way of
expressing the experience of the ultimate togetherness which is called
love."(MSM, p. 134)
On
the societal level, this confusion inevitably brings about a devaluation of
sex: "Like any kind of inflation – e.g., that on the monetary market
– sexual inflation is associated with a devaluation: sex is devaluated
inasmuch as it is dehumanized. Thus we observe a trend to living a sexual life
that is not integrated into one's personal life, but rather is lived out for
the sake of pleasure. Such a depersonalization of sex is a symptom of
existential frustration: the frustration of man's search for meaning."(UCM,
p. 93)
The
confusion of sex for love in the psyche of millions of people, resulting in the
degradation of love and proliferation of sex, both in America and throughout
the world, is doubtless a manifestation of the frustration of meaning and the
deep existential crisis. I discuss this problem at length also in other essays
of this book.
By the way, logotherapy suggests a method of
treating sexual neuroses based on the phenomenon called paradoxical
intention.
Logotherapy claims, "The more the man aims at pleasure by way of direct
intention, the more he misses his aim". (PAE, p. 21). This is true not
only with regard to pleasure. Quite often, an achievement is just a
"by-product" of an effort, not a directed objective of it. Thus, the
opposite situation should somehow be explored. For example, if an individual
stammers, rather than trying not to stammer, one should force oneself to
stammer as strongly as possible! Frankl relates to many cases when a short paradoxical
intention
treatment cured people who had been suffering for years from stammering,
perspiration phobias, sleeplessness, and impotence. But Frankl stresses, that
as a method of treatment, "Logotherapy is ultimately education towards
responsibility; the patient must push forward independently towards the
concrete meaning of his own existence" (DAS, p. xvi).
"The Unchangeable Fate"
In
his book "Psychotherapy and Existentialism" (PAE) Viktor Frankl
writes: "We have seen that there exists not only a will to pleasure and a
will to power but also a will to meaning. Now we see further: We have not only
the possibility of giving a meaning to our life by creative acts and beyond
that by the experience of Truth, Beauty, and Kindness, of Nature, Culture, and
human beings in their uniqueness and individuality, and of love; we have not
only the possibility of making life meaningful by creating and loving, but also
by suffering - so that when we can no longer change our fate by action, what
matters is the right attitude towards fate."
This
third avenue to meaning is, perhaps, the most important one. Too often we
forget that suffering is an unavoidable and ineradicable part of human life.
Without it, life could not be complete. Suffering - albeit in unequal degrees -
accompanies us through all our lives, eventually terminating in death. Finding
meaning
in suffering is not as much the ability to cope with suffering and not letting
it destroy oneself, but the possibility of "rising above oneself," "growing
beyond oneself,"
and thus "changing oneself." In "Man's Search for Meaning"
(MSM p. 88) Frankl writes: "Here lies a chance for a man either to make
use or to forgo the opportunities of attaining the moral values that a
difficult situation may afford him. And this decides whether he is worthy of
his sufferings or not." And a few pages later: "When a man finds that
it is his destiny to suffer, he will have to accept his suffering as his task;
his single and unique task. He will have to acknowledge the fact that even in
suffering he is unique and alone in the universe. No one can relieve him of his
suffering or suffer in his place. His unique opportunity lies in the way in
which he bears his burden" (p. 99) Frankl proves that a human being "may
turn a personal tragedy into a triumph."
It is usually believed that the main reason for
the desire to commit suicide in terminally ill adults derives from physical
suffering. Researchers studying the psychology of assisted suicide have
discovered, however, that only a third of those contemplating suicide are motivated
by this. In the majority of terminally ill patients the leading factors driving
their desire to suicide are "fear of a loss of control or dignity, or
being a burden, and of being dependent"(Peter Edelman, The Atlantic
Monthly, March, 1977, p. 75). A human being can cope with severe pain; but it
is the inability to comply with human standards that makes life unbearable and
impossible...
The
Nazi concentration camps witnessed thousands of examples of such human triumph
that a Freudian man with his will to pleasure is incapable of. Our
everyday life also gives us examples of this unbreakable will for meaning.
Among
them professor of Cambridge University and perhaps the most distinguished
theoretical physicist of our time, Dr. Stephen Hawking, a victim of Lou
Gehrig's disease, almost completely paralyzed, and unable to speak (a computer
helps him communicate);
Stephen Hawking's mother, Isobel Hawking writes:
"He says himself that he wouldn't have got where he is if he hadn't been
ill. And I think it is quite possible"[2]
America
is proud of Helen Keller. But not many remember another name: that of her
teacher, Anne Sullivan. Helen was able to overcome her handicaps ‚– she
was blind, deaf and mute – to become an author and one of the most
cultured people of her time. Her teacher Anne Sullivan herself semi-blind, has
made the tremendously difficult, seemingly impossible task – that became
her mission
– of turning a frightened and angry little animal – seven-year-old
Helen – into a human being. That mission filled all Anne
Sullivan's life, became her only objective[3].
This is an almost mystical example of an individual who "had grown above
herself," who made the life of another human being more important than
that of her own.
Another
hero – also the one America will always be proud of – is its great
president, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, whose imprint on this country's destiny
simply cannot be overestimated. A disabled man, a tragic victim of polio that
struck when his political career was only beginning, he, by inhuman willpower,
was able to turn his disability into the most powerful stimulus of his life.
When he, with the help of a body-guard or one of his sons, smiling broadly - as
he always did - walked towards the podium, most of the nation did not know that he
actually was unable to walk. It was an imitation, a pretense forced by FDR's
enormous physical and moral strength!
The
list of people, who have turned their suffering into human triumph, is long,
and each of them deserves a monument in the pantheon of Mankind. The examples
above were just names from the books and magazines scattered on my desk while I
was writing this essay.
I will never forget seeing a blind man skiing on
a down-hill slope in New Hampshire (with an assistant skiing before him with a sign:
"Attention, a blind person skiing!"), or a smiling and excited young
woman with paralyzed legs, being helped by two volunteers in loading her sledge
to a ski lift on Mt. Attitash; later I saw her "skiing" down a
difficult slope. I am proud to belong to the same species as those two people
and many thousands of others, who have won over their disability and turned
tragedy into a human triumph.
But
the inhuman ordeal of an extreme handicap is the fate of the relatively few,
while the everyday sufferings of millions are the reality of "normal"
life. In his books, Frankl gives quite a few examples of how people can
"rise above themselves" and "grow beyond themselves." He
also shows how the ideas of logotherapy can help people to understand the why of their suffering and
thus give them the how which enables them to cope with that why: from a personal
tragedy of loss of loved ones, to a tragedy of a prison inmate whose life seems
to be over.
Frankl relates his
conversation with a patient, a physician, who could not overcome the loss of
his wife, whom he loved above everything in the world. Two years had passed
since the death, but the patient's depression would not subside. Here is the
conversation:
F.: "What would
have happened, Doctor, if you had died first, and your wife would have had to
survive you?"
P.: "Oh, for her
this would have been terrible; how she would have suffered!"
F.: "You see,
Doctor, such a suffering has been spared of her, and it was you who have spared
her this suffering - to be sure, at the price that now you have to survive and
mourn her,"
Frankl concludes:
"He said no word but shook my hand and calmly left my office. In some way,
suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the
meaning of sacrifice" (MSM, p. 135)
In his book "The
Unheard Cry For Meaning" (UCM), Frankl also quotes from two letters from
inmates of American (Florida) prisons: "I have found true meaning in my
existence even here, in prison. I find purpose in my life, and this time I have
left is just a short wait for the opportunity to do better and to do
more." Another letter: "During the past several months a group of
inmates has been sharing your books and your tapes. Yes, one of the greatest
meanings we can be privileged to experience is suffering. I have just begun to
live, and what a glorious feeling it is! I am constantly humbled by the tears
of my brothers in our group when they can see that they are even now achieving
meanings they never thought possible. The changes are truly miraculous. Lives
which heretofore have been hopeless and helpless now have meaning. ... From the
barbed wire and chimney of Auschwitz rises the sun... My, what a new day must
be in store." (p. 47)
These
are Frankl's three possibilities of acquiring a meaning. But how can one acquire that meaning? Dr. Joseph Fabry
devoted his book Guideposts to Meaning[4] to the difficult task of
step-by-step guiding the reader towards understanding what really matters in
one's life. Dr. Fabry suggests that one should involve oneself in a Socratic
dialogues:
- the dialogues inside oneself - that would facilitate finding the meaning.
Five guideposts should
be probed, in the areas where the meaning is most likely to be found:
"1. Self-discovery.
The more you find out about your real self behind all the masks you put on for
self protection, the more meaning you will discover.
2. Choice. The more
choices you see in your situation, the more meaning will become available.
3. Uniqueness. You will
be most likely to find meaning in situations where you are not easily replaced
by someone else.
4. Responsibility. Your
life will be meaningful if you learn to take responsibility where you have
freedom of choice, and if you learn not to feel responsible where you face an
unalterable fate,
5. Self-transcendence.
Meaning comes to you when you reach beyond your egocentricity towards
others" (p. 10).
And
yet, there is no easy and ready prescription for everyone. Viktor Frankl's
advice: listen carefully to what your life requires of you. Listen to your
conscience. Think. Be patient, do not hurry. One day you will know. But this
may be a long and difficult road till you have reached your destination...
"Homo Patiens"
The
urge to have a meaning in one's life, the will for meaning, is an indispensable
quality of a "homo patiens" – "the suffering man, the man
who knows how to suffer, how to mold even his sufferings into a human
achievement" – the term coined by Frankl. He writes (UCM, p. 46):
"Usually, man is seen as the homo sapiens, the clever man who has
know-how, who knows how to be a success, how to be a successful businessman or
a successful playboy, that is, how to be successful in making money or in
making love. The homo sapiens moves between the positive extreme of success and
its negative counterpart, failure." But there is another dimension to
human life. The homo patiens moves on an axis perpendicular to that of the Homo
sapiens. It
extends between the poles of fulfillment ("plus") and despair
("minus"): the fulfillment of one's self through the fulfillment of
meaning, and the despair over the apparent meaninglessness of one's life.
This
visual interpretation of our existential stand (see the diagram below) is very
helpful in understanding the real life situations. A wealthy individual who has
achieved complete success in his/her life may find himself/herself in the
extreme negative on the homo patiens scale, if that individual's life is devoid of
meaning and direction. It may be not only a rock-, or movie-, or athletic star,
but also a successful medical doctor or a lawyer, or even an elected official.
On
the other hand, a modest individual who can hardly exist on a meager salary or
a pension – and is, of course, far from achieving "success"
from the point of view accepted in our society, perhaps is even a
"loser" – may be fully content and happy, doing work that is unique and important: as my modest janitor,
the nameless hospital volunteers, the people giving their time to charity. An
extreme case is of course a prison inmate who can find a new meaning in
suffering.

The
upper right-hand corner of Frankl's diagram is not empty either. I have read of
a successful lawyer who found time in his busy schedule to help out in the
maternity ward of a hospital: they needed "human hands" - just to lull
babies abandoned by their mothers in order that they might feel "mother's
warmth." In 1995 a story made headlines in the Boston press: about a
factory owner who, after his factory was destroyed by fire continued paying
salaries to his workers until the factory began functioning again. Bill Gates,
the head of Microsoft and a multi-billionaire, has spent hundreds of millions
of dollars promoting health care and education in Africa. And he is not alone:
thousands of prominent leaders of industry, culture and sports selflessly give
their money and their time to projects making the world better.
The
lower left-hand corner of the diagram is occupied by the underclass who were
unable to achieve either material success or meaning in their lives...
Where
could American teenagers be placed on this diagram? They have not yet started
moving along the Failure-Success continuum: They have no bank accounts, credit
cards, or careers. They may be
placed only at the vertical Fulfillment-Despair axis). Many American children will proudly
occupy the Fulfillment part of the axis.
Among those are teenagers doing volunteer work, or raising funds for
humanitarian causes, or being active in their schools' interest clubs, or just
reading a lot – to name just a few spheres of life that bring children
fulfillment. However, most of our
youngsters already know what Despair is.
They are slaves of the pop-culture: anti-intellectual, thoughtless, sex-
and drugs- oriented and noisy. In
fact, in these children's lives the boredom triad (that has been already
discussed) – depression, addiction, and aggression – is the everyday
reality. These children may be
placed only in the negative part of the Fulfillment-Despair axis, and often deep in
the Despair
area (remember the spread of teenagers' depression and suicide). Their lives are boring and empty and
devoid of meaning, they are abandoned by our society, they drift, creating
their own ugly "culture," and nobody is out there to help them...
Happiness...
It
is always difficult to talk about the fundamental existential problems. They are too
personal, even intimate. We rarely discuss them even with people who are really
close to us. In our everyday life there is not much time that, left alone with
our own soul, we can ask ourselves: "Where am I? What am I? What do I live
for?" And yet, it is important to go on asking these questions again and
again: even if only in order to prevent our souls from "falling
asleep."
For
a skeptical reader who still believes that what Frankl is saying is just an
"abstract philosophy," which is difficult, if not impossible, to
implement in everyday life, I would like to quote from an article published
sometime in the middle 80s in a Boston North Shore newspaper. In my files I
found one page: a Xerox copy of just some 50 lines (two short columns) from
that article.
I
do not know what newspaper it was published in; the author's name is also
missing. But I am deeply grateful to that individual for what he or she wrote,
and I regret that I do not know the name, to be able to personally express my
gratitude to that individual. That article was important to me at that time,
for when I read it, I did not know of either Viktor Frankl or logotherapy. Perhaps, the article's
author did not know either. But that article is an excellent and thoughtful
interpretation of Frankl's ideas. Let me reproduce here the whole text as I
have it on that Xerox page.
In television series LateNight America, I
learned from experts that only 20 percent Americans are happy, which prompted
me during the last year to talk about happiness with psychiatrists, psychologists,
educators, religious leaders and many other successful Americans. All agree
that happiness comes to us as a direct result of high self-esteem, a positive
attitude and the way in which we relate to other people. It's not as
complicated as we make it out to be. But happiness may be different from what
we think it is.
Happiness, I have learned, is a feeling of
contentment and peace of mind. Life is a mixed bag of joy and sadness, laughter
and tears, pain and growth. Happy people accept the whole package, realizing
that happiness is only a part of life's puzzle.
Unfortunately, too many Americans have swallowed
a bill of goods which states that happiness can be achieved 24 hours a day and
will be found in success, fame, possessions, and marrying or having a
relationship with the right individual.
I've discovered that, to be happy, we must have
something to do, someone or something to love, and something to hope for. Our
work must give us a sense of pride and satisfaction, use of our special talents
and abilities, and provide us with the opportunity for recognition and
contribution. If we work only for money at a job we hate, we deny ourselves the
chance to be happy.
To be happy we must live for something outside
ourselves - another individual or people, a cause, a belief in God. To live
only for ourselves is to exist in a world of one - and that brings misery. To
be happy we must have hope, which is our commitment of time and energy to the
future. We need to dream. To have no dream is to have no hope, and to have no
hope is to have no reason to live.
The
above may be, in essence, summarized as a formula of ultimate happiness. This
is also the Frankl formula. Like any mathematical formula, which does not make
sense unless some numbers are put into it, the formula of ultimate happiness,
in order to work, requires the actions of a whole life. It is simple:
Live a life that
multiplies good; so that when you are about to leave, the Earth is
better - even though
just a little bit - than it was when you came to this world -
and this is because
of the life you have lived! If, though only once in your life, you
saw tears of
gratitude in the eyes of a stranger, whom you may never see again,
the formula worked!
Years
ago, after a lecture at an American university, a student asked Viktor Frankl:
"You talk so much about meaning. But what is the meaning in your life?" "What
do you think the meaning in my life is?" - Frankl addressed a student
standing next to him. "I believe the meaning in your life is to help people
find meaning in theirs," - was the answer.
And
I would like to finish this essay with the words of Viktor Frankl (DAS, p.
139): "We must never be content with what has already been achieved. Life
never ceases to put new questions to us, never permits us to come to rest. Only
self-narcotization keeps us insensible to the eternal pricks with which life
with its endless succession of demands stings our conscience. The man who
stands still is passed by; the man who is smugly contented loses himself. Neither
in creating nor experiencing may we rest content with achievement; every day,
every hour makes deeds necessary and new experiences possible."
References
to Viktor Frankl's books:
MSM:
Viktor
E. Frankl Man's Search for Meaning, Washington Square Press, New York,
1985
UCM: Viktor
E. Frankl The Unheard Cry for Meaning: Psychotherapy and Humanism, Washington Square Press, New York, 1985
PAE: Viktor E. Frankl, Psychotherapy and
Existentialism,
Washington Square Press, New
York, 1985,
DAS: Viktor E. Frankl The Doctor and the Soul:
From Psychotherapy to Logotherapy, Vintage Book, New
York, 1973
RCL: Viktor E. Frankl, Recollections: An
Autobiography
(English translation by Joseph and
Judith Fabry), Plenum Publishing House in London, 1997
MSUM:
Viktor E. Frankl. Manís Search for Ultimate Meaning. Boston: Beacon Press.
Plenum Press, New York
About
the author:
Genrich
L. Krasko is a retired physicist still affiliated with Massachusetts Institute
of Technology, Cambridge, MA. He lives in Peabody, MA with his wife Zeya. (E-mail:
gen.krasko1@verizon.net).
* This essay is based on
a chapter from the author's currently published book: This Unbearable
Boredom of Being: The Crisis of Meaning in America (http://web.mit.edu/gkrasko/www/SearchingForMeaning.html), iUniverse, 2004.
Shortly before his death in 1997, Viktor Frankl wrote a Foreword for the
book. A short version of this
essay was previously published in the Spring-Summer, 1997, issue (vol. 5, No 1)
of Journals des Viktor-Frankl-Instituts (Vienna, Austria), p. 82.
[1] Dr. Fabry is also the founder of the "Institute of Logotherapy" - a research and educational institution dedicated to promoting the meaning-oriented methods of Viktor Frankl and his followers. The current Institute's address: Hardin Simmons University, P.O.Box 15211, Abilene, TX 79698. I deeply appreciate Dr. Fabry's assistance: sending me the manuscript of Viktor Frankl's Autobiography prior to its publication, and very helpful correspondence (the following quote is from one of Dr. Fabry's letters).
[2] Stephen Hawking's A Brief History of Time: A Reader's Companion, p. 110.
[3] See an excellent book: Dorothy Herrmann, Hellen Keller. A Life. The University of Chicago Press, 1998.
[4] Joseph Fabry, Guideposts to Meaning. Discovering What Really Matters. New Harbinger Pubns Inc, 1988.
visitors since 1st October, 2005.
Genrich L. Krasko
VIKTOR FRANKL: THE
PROPHET OF MEANING*
For too long we have
been dreaming a dream from which we are now waking up: the dream that if we
just improve the socioeconomic situation of people, everything will be okay,
people will become happy. The truth is that as the struggle for survival has subsided, the
question has emerged: survival for what? Ever more people today have the means to
live, but no meaning to live for.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"The Unheard Cry for Meaning"
26
March 2005 Viktor Frankl – one of the greatest minds of the 20th century:
the psychiatrist, psychologist and philosopher – would be 100 years old.
The life of Viktor Frankl was not a usual life. He lived three lives in one.
And the three of them were extraordinary and astounding.
A
humble medical student in the late 20th, a disciple of first Sigmund Freud, and
then Alfred Adler, Viktor Frankl eventually challenged their authoritarianism
and was expelled from both schools.
The
originality and deep humanism of his thinking had enabled him to develop his
own approach to human soul: he became founder of the so-called Third
Viennese School of Psychotherapy. Thrown into a Nazi death camp in 1942, he, by
his spiritual strength and his will to life, had managed to survive and thus
became a living proof of the main thesis of his philosophy: one can live only for
so long as one's life has a meaning.
Numerous
books written by Viktor Frankl after the liberation where he formulated and
discussed the logotherapy - his new approach to psychotherapy - were
translated into dozens of languages and sold throughout the world in millions
of copies.
To
be a prophet - to tell people the truth they would not like to hear - is a
difficult job. And yet, throughout the history of humankind, both ancient, and
more recent times had its own prophets. At the dawn of our civilization, the
Biblical Prophets, humble but rugged, dared to challenge both kings and the
mob. Too often they were stoned. Today we do not stone the prophets: we simply
do not listen to them. Besides, there were so many pseudo-prophets in the
Earth's history: how does one know that this one is real?
The
truth is that there is no way to know. The Biblical times have gone, and we do
not believe that today's prophets are God's messengers. Perhaps they are not.
Perhaps they are just the people who see beyond the easily seen, and understand
beyond the easily understandable. And they do tell truth we do not like to
hear.
Viktor
Frankl did not consider himself a prophet. But how else but prophetic would one
call Frankl's greatest accomplishment: over 50 years ago he identified the
societal sickness that already then was haunting the world, and now has become
pandemic?
This
"sickness" is the loss of meaning in people's lives. In one of his books
(MSUM, p.94. Abbreviations to references of Viktor Frankl's books are listed at
the end of the essay.), Frankl writes:
Unlike an animal, man is
no longer told by drives and instincts what he must do. And in contrast to man in former times,
he is no longer told by traditions and values what he should do. Now, knowing neither what he must do
nor what he should do, he sometimes does not even know what he basically wishes
to do. Instead, he wishes to do
what other people do... or he does what other people wish him to do...
In
this situation when people "loose ground" the old liberal social
philosophies also fail. The bitter
truth, says Frankl (UCM, p. 21), is that (italics by Frankl)
For too long we have
been dreaming a dream from which we are now waking up: the dream that if we
just improve the socioeconomic situation of people, everything will be okay,
people will become happy. The truth is that as the struggle for survival has subsided, the
question has emerged: survival for what? Ever more people today have the means to
live, but no meaning to live for.
In another book (PAE, p.122) Frankl notes:
What threatens
contemporary man is the alleged meaningfulness of his life, or, as I call it,
the existential vacuum within him. And when does this vacuum open up, when does
this so often latent vacuum become manifest? In the state of boredom.
Boredom is the main symptom of
this illness. To see if society is sick one has just to observe how deeply boredom – in its many
forms and manifestations – overflows peoplesí lives. Sometimes it becomes unbearable, and
then its companions: addiction, depression and aggression, become the threat not
only to the individual but also to society as a whole.
Just
a glimpse of the state of boredom among Americans – a significant segment
of American society – does not leave any doubts that the crisis of
meaning has overwhelmed this great nation.
Robert
Kaplan (1994), a noted American journalist gives a vivid picture of the existential
vacuum
that has engulfed America:
When voter turnout
decreases to around 50 percent at the same time the middle class is spending
astounding sums in gambling casinos and state lotteries, joining private health
clubs and using large amounts of stimulants and anti-depressants, one can
legitimately be concerned about the state of American society. We have become voyeurs and
escapists. Many of us don't play
sports but love watching great athletes with great physical attributes. It is because people find so little in
themselves that they fill their world with celebrities. The masses avoid important national and
international news because much of it is tragic, even as they show an unlimited
appetite for the details of Princess Diana's death.
An
important symptom of the sickness – and it can be observed not only in
America - is the willingness to give up self and responsibility, which Robert
Kaplan even sees as a ìsine qua non for tyranny.î
Perhaps
tyranny
is not something that threatens America today. However, the most serious problems in America, that haunt
the nation, are direct consequences of that boredom triad.
ïAddiction to illicit drugs is one
of the most pressing problems in America today. President George H. W. Bush, in 1989, called drugs ìthe
gravest domestic threat facing our nation.î Later, President Clinton termed drugs as Americaís ìconstant
curse.î The street cocaine market
in the United States has been stable for years and totals over $35 billion a
year. Approximately 1.5 to 2
million people is regular cocaine or crack cocaine users. Although, in percentages, the numbers
of ethnic minority drug users are higher, the market itself — and that is
what is important even if one only wants to stop the spread of drugs — is
sustained mainly by whites, middle and upper-middle class whites.
America
has spent and continues to spend hundreds of billions of dollars to stop the
supply of illicit drugs. But it is
the demand
for drugs that makes the problem so serious. In fact, it is the problem. NaÔve attempts to curb the demand, like the Just Say No
to Drugs!
Campaign launched in 1986 by the then First Lady Nancy Reagan, have miserably
failed.
Gambling
– through numerous state-supported lotteries, and legal and semi-legal
casinos spreading in America like mushrooms after rain – is pandemic. Other forms of addiction, among them
the addiction to video and computer games (especially among children), and to
the Internet, are also wide spread.
ïDepression has reached the
proportion of an epidemic in America. Some 20 million people suffer from depression. It has been accepted as something
unfortunate but ìnatural.î One in five children meets the government criteria
for mental health help. And depression among children grows at an astonishing
rate of 23% per year!
In
2001, three million American teenagers thought about committing suicide, and
one million actually attempted it.
According to medical authorities, in most cases the leading cause was
depression.
The
use of Prozac and other psychotropic drugs skyrockets. The pharmaceutical giant Eli Lilly
makes on Prozac over $1 billion annually.
And no voices are heard even hinting on the possible existential causes
of this epidemic.
ïAs
for aggression, it finds its realization in proliferation of violence
– both in the media (movies, TV, video and computer games) and real
life. It is a general belief in
this country that Hollywood deliberately engulfs America with violent
movies. But it is, again, the
problem of supply
vs. demand.
Why
do people like and want to watch this kind of movies and TV programs? The reason is exactly the same as that,
which, two millennia ago made the Roman mobs pack the Coliseums where gladiator
slaves killed each other, or were thrown to wild animals. This reason was and is boredom.
A
powerful factor that also feeds aggression in America is the proliferation of
firearms. It is now threatening
normal life in our cities and towns.
In my view, the desire to "bear arms" is not so much a result
of Americans' deep-laying mistrust of government as a potentially oppressive institution,
but as a response to high level of the boredom-born aggression in American
men – a vicious circle.
All
segments of our society have been penetrated by the existential vacuum. Frankl
also calls it "frustration of meaning." This sickness, rooted in the meaning of one's existence, is
nearly universal: as the post-industrial revolution spreads worldwide, it
infects affluent societies, welfare states, and even the poorest countries.
In
America the crisis is exacerbated by the fact that our education does not help
people to overcome the infection, but rather enhances its toll. Our younger
generation is the victim who suffers most from the crisis. The use of illicit
drugs by youths and juvenile crime are steadily on the rise in America today.
Their cause is almost without exception the meaninglessness in the lives of our
children.
In
fact, the very foundations of the American philosophy of life have been
threatened. The American Dream - the dream of affluence and success - does not
seems to promise happiness anymore. Acquiring wealth and success does not add
meaning to life: among the drug users there are more affluent than poor...
The
quintessence of this devastating crisis has been expressed in a statement by International
Network on Personal Meaning:
In modern society,
several forces and trends are converging in creating a crying need for meaning
and spirituality. Prosperity without a purpose leads to disillusion and
emptiness. Progress without a spiritual direction results in confusion and
uncertainty. A winner-take-all economy contributes to conflict and injustice.
Violence, conflict, addiction, depression, and suicide reflect an existential
crisis. The paradox of prosperity without happiness reflects an unfulfilled
spiritual hunger. The intense competition of the new economy results in an
increasing gap between the haves and the have-nots.
Frankl's
books have been published in dozens of languages. Only in the United States
were they sold in the millions of copies. But in America today Frankl's name is
known only to a handful of professionals, and his ideas are either unknown or
disregarded. They have not been given any serious discussion either on the
level of government and policy making, or on the level of "us, the
people," the millions who suffer most from that sickness which Frankl
diagnosed over half a century ago. And this is in a time when the sickness of
meaninglessness has taken on the proportions and scope of an epidemic.
Why?
Probably, because paving a way out of our crisis, the existential crisis, would require
fundamental social reforms, a radical change in our educational philosophy and
educational system in the first place, to which the numerous interest groups
would not agree without a fierce struggle. On the other hand, the populist
politics of our policy makers, on both sides of the aisle, prevents them from
doing anything that "we, the people" would not like. And the therapy
that would make the society healthy again may be painful...
A
dozen of institutions throughout the world keep the flame of Viktor Frankl's
ideas alive. Among them, the "hub:" Viktor-Frankl-Institut in
Vienna, Austria (www.logotherapy.univie.ac.at),
Viktor Frankl Institute of Logotherapy, Abilene, TX (www.logotherapyinstitute.org), and International
Forum for Personal Meaning, BC, Canada (www.meaning.ca). Hundreds of dedicated women and men,
most of them psychologists, are helping people to overcome the
"existential vacuum" in their souls and return to fulfilling and
meaningful lives. But their heroic efforts are not enough to quell this
devastating crisis. Our society needs, and needs very badly, the honest discussion
of the origin of this crisis of meaning, and the social conditions that are
feeding it everyday, no matter how painful this discussion may be.
This essay is about
Viktor Frankl—his life, his ideas and the legacy he has left.
VIENNA...
"There is only one Vienna"
A common phrase in
Vienna, c. 1781
In
the second half of the 19th century and the first decade of the 20th, Vienna,
the capital of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, was also a second cultural capital
of Europe, second only to Paris. It was a cultural Mecca and a center of
science.
It
was also a powerful economic magnet, attracting numerous immigrants. Among the
notable immigrants were composers Johannes Brahms and Gustav Mahler, the
founder of Zionism Theodore Herzl, and the great Sigmund Freud.
The
decline of the Empire, reaching its nadir after Austria's defeat in World War
I, was also the time of triumph and fame of the new school of psychiatry named
psychoanalysis. In 1920, the 64-year-old Sigmund Freud was the dominant and
most authoritative international figure on the scene of psychological science
and psychiatry.
Vienna
was boiling with multiple ideas, originating from the Freudian revolution in
psychology. Not only the university campuses, but also numerous discussion
clubs in schools were caught in this process of learning and discussion.
Passionately
absorbed by this sea of ideas was a young teenage boy named Viktor Frankl. Just
15 in 1920, he still remembered how his family, immigrants from Moravia, was on
the edge of starvation, begging for food at the farmers' market. The Frankls
could not afford an expensive private school for their son, but in a
Volkshochschule (free public school, attended mostly by children of poor
people), Viktor was an active speaker in youth and discussion clubs. He writes
in his autobiography (RCL): "More and more my speech exercises and school
papers became treatises on psychoanalysis. More and more I supplied my
schoolmates with information in this field." This was right after Freud
had published his epochal work "Beyond the Pleasure Principle." It
was on everybody's tongue...
"I
was still in high school" - recalls Frankl -" when the wish of my
early childhood to become a physician became focused, under the influence of
psychoanalysis, on becoming a psychiatrist." Actually, when the time of
decision came, Frankl for a while "toyed with the idea to turn to
dermatology or obstetrics."
Frankl
recalls that the final decision - to become a psychiatrist - came after a
friend of his, in their argument about the future, quoted from Kierkegaard:
"don't despair at wanting to become your authentic self."
A
few years later, as a university medical student, Viktor Frankl was a witness
and participant of the battle of the psychiatrists in the atmosphere that
"made Vienna a city of couches as much as a city of dreams."(W. B.
Gould, "Frankl: Life With Meaning.")
Ideologically,
psychiatry was not an untroubled and peaceful kingdom. In 1912 Freud expelled
from his inner circle - and, as a matter of fact, from his kingdom altogether-
his most talented follower, Alfred Adler. Adler later became the founder of the
so-called "The Second Viennese School of Psychotherapy" (the
"First" was the Freudian school).
As
a medical student, Frankl began to correspond with Sigmund Freud. "I sent
him material which I came across in my extensive interdisciplinary readings and
which I assumed might be of interest to him. Every letter was promptly answered
by him"(RCL). As a matter of fact, Freud personally presented Frankl's
paper of 1924 - his second scientific paper - to the International Journal of
Psychoanalysis.
In
spite of the fact that Frankl's psychoanalysis professors were two exceptional
followers of Freud, the young medical student began to drift away from the
"canonical" Freudism. He felt that Freud's "Pleasure
Principle" was lacking a human dimension, and began developing his own
theories that contradicted Freud's Principle. He also felt that the whole
Freudian philosophy was somewhat nihilistic. This feeling brought him into the
Adlerian camp.
Unlike
Freud, Adler saw an individual's freedom of choice as a fundamental factor in
the decision-making process. This idea became a starting point, and, in fact, a
cornerstone in Frankl's own theories. Ironically enough, history repeated
itself: Having been expelled by Freud 14 years before, Adler insisted on
Frankl's leaving his circle after the latter openly supported the dissenting
view of two of Adler's followers.
After
graduating from the university, Viktor Frankl became a practicing psychiatrist.
He passionately wanted to help people. Apart from taking patients, he was
spending a lot of time giving lectures and counseling. Since 1927 he had been
teaching a weekly class at the adult education school. For many years - until
the dreadful day when Frankl, together with his family and thousands of
Viennese Jews, was deported to a death camp - he worked at clinics for the
poor.
Seeing
hundreds of patients, watching the symptoms and development of neuroses, his
new approach had crystallized. He even suggested a method of treating some
neuroses, the so-called "no–genic neuroses," the ones to do with
frustration of man's spirit (no–s). Psychoanalysis gave way to a Meaning
Analysis.
This
approach, by 1929, grew into the whole philosophy that revolutionized both psychology
as a science and psychiatry as a branch of medicine. Frankl named his new
approach, logotherapy (logos is Greek for meaning) showing a new way of
treating neuroses and, in fact, exposing the origin of the many ills of
contemporary society.
In
his autobiography Frankl writes: "...as a psychiatrist, or rather a
psychotherapist, I see beyond the actual weaknesses... I can see beyond the
misery of the situation, the possibility to discover a meaning behind it, and
thus to turn an
apparently meaningless life into a genuine human achievement. I am convinced that,
in the final analysis, there is no situation, which does not contain the seed
of meaning. To a great extent, this conviction is the basis of logotherapy's
subject and system." (RCL; italics by Frankl).
Frankl's
school of thought was later named "The Third Viennese School of
Psychotherapy." In a nutshell, the difference among the three Viennese
Schools of Psychotherapy is as follows: the Freudian and Adlerian psychologies
are centered respectively on the "will to pleasure" and the
"will to power." Frankl argues that it is "the striving to find
a meaning in life" that "is the primary motivational force in
man" (PAE, p. 34). Moreover, Frankl claims that "Actually, 'pleasure
is not the goal of human striving but rather a by-product of the fulfillment of
such striving; and 'power' is not an end but a means to an end. Thus, the
'pleasure principle' school mistakes a side effect for the goal, while the
'will to power' school mistakes a means for the end" (ibid.). However, society gets
sick when the two latter "wills" take over: they bring society into a
state of "existential vacuum."
Here are the logotherapy's central affirmatives:
ïLife has meaning under all circumstances, even the most miserable ones.
ïOur main
motivation for living is our will to find meaning in life.
ïWe have freedom to find meaning in how we
think, in what we do, in what we experience, and even when we are faced with a
situation of unchangeable suffering.
ïWe are mind, body and spirit. These dimensions
of the self are interdependent. The key is the spirit. The spiritual core, and
only the spiritual core, warrants and constitutes oneness and wholeness; it
enables us to exercise our will to meaning, to envisage our goals, and to move beyond
our instinctual and sexual needs to self-transcendence
But
let us turn back. The year 1933. The Nazis had just taken over in Germany. But
it was still quiet in Austria, although the Nazi party became more and more
noisy... Vienna, Austria's capital was still the capital of world psychology
and psychiatry. The great Sigmund Freud was still a ruling emperor. But life
had changed. Anti-Semitism was on the rise and the annexation (Anschluss) of Austria by Germany
seemed imminent.
The
world of ideas and aspirations together with all hopes for the future collapsed
12 March 1938, the day of Anschluss, when Nazi Germany invaded Austria. Two days
later, Sigmund Freud's apartment and his university offices were searched and
his passport revoked. With great difficulty, and only after the interference of
the international scientific community and the American President personally,
was the 82-year-old and terminally ill Sigmund Freud allowed to leave Austria.
It
was the collapse of Viktor Frankl's world also. Since 1937 Frankl had had his
own practice as a specialist in neurology and psychiatry, at the same time
continuing to work in hospitals and youth counseling centers. Gradually he
became renowned internationally. He was being invited to give lectures at international
conferences throughout Europe.
However
the future looked grim. Viktor was thinking of emigrating, but was hesitant. He
hoped, that as a psychiatrist, he would be able to support his parents, his
younger sister and brother and his fiancÈe. But, he also knew that in spite of
his international standing, nobody would be able to defend them against
possible Nazi persecution. Eventually he submitted an application for an
immigration visa to the American embassy - a visa he was not destined to use.
That
is how Victor Frankl recalls those dramatic events in his Autobiography.
"I had to wait for years until my quota number came up that enabled me to
get a visa to immigrate to the United States. Finally, shortly before Pearl
Harbor, I was asked to come to the US consulate to pick up my visa. Then I
hesitated: Should I leave my parents behind? I knew what their fate would be:
deportation to a concentration camp. Should I say good-bye and leave them to
their fate? The visa was exclusively for me"
When
he came home that day he found his father in tears. "The Nazis have burned
down the synagogue," said the father and showed him a fragment of marble
he had salvaged. That piece of marble had just one letter of the Ten
Commandments engraved on it, the beginning of the commandment "Honor thy
father and thy mother." Frankl called the American embassy and canceled
his visa. "It may be that I had made my decision, deep within, long
before, and the oracle was in reality only the echo of the voice of my conscience,"
concludes Frankl.
As
a part of the infamous "final solution" - complete extermination of
the Jews from the face of the earth - the turn of the Austrian Jews came in
1942. Dr. Joseph Fabry, a most distinguished student and disciple of Viktor
Frankl in the United States, and the translator of his Autobiography into
English, writes[1]: "The
deportation of the Jews from Austria was no different from that from other
countries, perhaps more severe because of the innate anti-Semitism of many
Austrians. Up to 1942 the deportations were somewhat selective and exceptions
were made for a certain class of Jews or individuals, such as doctors in the
Jewish Hospital (Frankl), nurses there ([Frankl's wife] Tilly), or people
recruited to help clean up apartments of deported Jews (Tilly's mother), and
often their immediate families. From the Wansee Conference on (1942) where the
"final solution" was decided, there were no more exceptions."
The
Frankl family was deported to the Theresienstadt camp in July 1942... Almost
all the family perished: Frankl's father died in Theresienstadt; his mother was
gassed in Auschwitz; his wife Tilly died in Bergen-Belsen after she had been
liberated by the British; his younger brother died in a branch camp of
Auschwitz, working in a mine; only his sister survived the camps and later
emigrated to Australia.
Frankl's
experience, as a death camp prisoner, was described in his first book written
after the liberation. First published in 1946 in Vienna as "Ein Psycholog
Erlebt das Konzentrationslager", and later translated into many languages
and sold in millions of copies. The English translation: Viktor Frankl, Man's
Search For Meaning.
(In this essay I reference the latest edition as MSM).
Today,
after over half a century of that world tragedy, the holocaust, the tragedy that the
human brain simply refuses to comprehend, thousands of accounts of people's
first encounter with the Nazi extermination machine are known. And yet, Viktor
Frankl's account is special. His is that of a scientist, a doctor, a soul healer:
almost devoid of emotion but full of sober analysis and meaning.
The
generation of Holocaust survivors is gradually leaving this earth, taking with
them the agony of their memories. For us, who have never felt what it was to be
jammed into a cattle car slowing down at an obscure place named
"Auschwitz," a semi-mad woman screaming: "Fire, I can see
fire!" (Elie Wiesel, "Night"), there is only imagination. The gift of conscience
that does not allow us to forget, that reminds us how fragile our civilization
is and how thin is the layer of our humane culture. Frankl's account is extremely
important for us, who are distressed that that layer of humanity in our
civilization is so thin. It is a source and a symbol of hope that we, the humans,
can be superior beings, can challenge the animal in us, and thus win against all
odds.
...The
train, overloaded with humans about to lose their human identity in exchange
for a tattooed number (if lucky enough not to turn into a burst of black smoke
in the crematorium chimney); German shepherds and SS men with submachine-guns;
the "selection": those on the right will get their numbers and will
live, and, at last, the real shower and striped "uniform," whose
previous owner does not exist any more... Frankl writes: "While we were
waiting for the shower, our nakedness was brought home to us: we really had
nothing except our bare bodies - even minus hair; all we possessed, literally
was our naked existence. What else remained for us as a material link with our
former lives? We knew that we had nothing to lose except our so ridiculously
naked lives" (MSM, pp. 33-34).
That is what Frankl writes in his autobiography:
"I have never published what happened at the first selection at the
Auschwitz train station. I have never published it, simply because I still am
not sure whether I perhaps only imagined it. This was the situation: Dr.
Mengele turned my shoulders not to the right, that is to the survivors, but to
the left, to those destined for the gas chamber. Since I couldn't make out
anyone I knew who was sent left, but recognized a few young colleagues who were
directed to the right, I walked behind Dr. Mengele's back to the right. God knows
where the idea came from and how I had the courage." This episode has an
almost mystical flavor: as if the MISSION Viktor Frankl was destined to fulfill
had been secured and enforced.
Among
the things that Frankl left behind, was the manuscript of his book on the
foundations of logotherapy - his first book - hidden in the inner pocket
of his coat, of all the material things the dearest to him. During the endless
two and a half years of his imprisonment, page-by-page, chapter-by-chapter, he
reconstructed his book in his memory. The book: Ÿrztlische Seelsorge (The Doctor and the Soul: From Psychotherapy
to Logotherapy)
- I reference it as DAS - was published after the war, translated into nine
languages and in 57 editions.
In
the Introduction to the book Frankl writes: "Life is a task. The religious
man differs from the apparently irreligious man only by experiencing his
existence not simply as a task, but as a mission. That means that he is also
aware of the taskmaster, the source of his mission. For thousands of years that
source was called God"(ibid. p. xv). This feeling of an important mission to be fulfilled, of the
responsibility before himself, his family (he did not know that he would never
see his parents, brother, sister and wife again), and his fellow prisoners
never left Frankl. This is that MISSION, that was with him all his life, till
the very last breath. Viktor Frankl passed away in Vienna on September 2, 1997.
AUSCHWITZ...
Our generation has come
to know man as he really is: the being that has invented the gas chambers of
Auschwitz, and also the being who entered those gas chambers upright, the
Lord's Prayer or the Shema Yisrael on his lips.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"Psychotherapy and Existentialism."
A
Freudian man, having been put into conditions of endless suffering and
deprivation would have had to turn into an animal, with the lowest possible
instincts taking over the whatever "civilized" and humane had been
implanted during the previous life. Too often that was the case in the Nazi
concentration camps. People betrayed each others, or stole precious food from
their comrades, even when that could hasten the unfortunate's death - all the
means were good if they helped to save their own lives. And yet, in his account
of the psychology of the concentration camp (Man's Search for Meaning, MSM) Viktor Frankl
gives quite a few examples of human behavior that disprove Freud's theory.
They
do not, in fact, quite disprove. Those examples rather prove that one can
elevate oneself, rise from that abyss of the animal to the heights of the human. "In the
concentration camp, in this living laboratory and on this testing ground, we
watched and witnessed some of our comrades behave like swine while others
behaved like saints. Man has both potentials within himself; which one is
actualized depends on decisions but not on conditions" (p. 157).
In
his book Frankl again and again quotes Nietzsche's words: "He who has a why
to live
for can bear with almost any how." If one understands the why of one's existence, one
will be able to cope with the how, no matter how impossible that would seem.
Understanding the why simply meant that people could find a meaning in their
sufferings, and even probable death. "It can be said that they were worthy
of their sufferings; the way they bore their suffering was a genuine inner
achievement. It is this spiritual freedom - which cannot be taken away - that
makes life meaningful and purposeful" (p. 87). If, on the other hand,
people were unable to take that challenge, turning their lives into an inner
triumph; if they believed that life was over, that all the real life opportunities
had disappeared for good, then their days were numbered: they vegetated,
progressively sliding down towards the imminent end.
"Under
the influence of a world which no longer recognized the value of human life and
human dignity, which had robbed man of his will and had made him an object to
be exterminated (having planned, however, to make use of him first - to the
last ounce of his physical resources) - under this influence the personal ego
finally suffered a loss of values. If the man in the concentration camp did not
struggle against this in a last effort to save his self-respect, he lost the
feeling of being an individual, a being with a mind, with inner freedom and
personal value" (p. 70).
The
understanding of the new "why" did not come easily to those people.
Frankl recalls one of the first lessons, given to them, newcomers in Auschwitz,
by an already "seasoned" inmate; "Don't be afraid! Don't fear
the selections! But one thing I
beg of you...shave daily, even if you have to use a piece of glass to do
it...even if you have to give your last piece of bread for it. You will look
younger and the scraping will make your cheek ruddier. If you want to stay
alive, there is only one way: look fit for work" (p. 38). Those who could
not find the inner strength to cope with the how became doomed.
That
victory over inhuman suffering seems almost unbelievable today, half a century
later, when entertainment and pleasure are the most important components of
people's lives. But it was a real triumph of human spirit, another proof of
that which God made of us was good.
In
my view, that Frankl's book - at least those one hundred pages of the
concentration camp chapter - must be read by everyone who is trying to
understand the why
of our so comfortable and safe life. In a new school curriculum, I would
recommend this book for our teenagers as one of the most important textbooks.
...A
long column of inmates, the walking skeletons, suffering from hunger,
exhaustion, and, on the top of everything, edema of their legs and feet. Some
do not have socks - their frostbitten and chilblain feet are so swollen, that
there is no space for socks, even if they had them... Suddenly, the man
marching next to Frankl whisper: "If our wives could see us now! I do hope
they are better off in their camps and don't know what is happening to
us." Frankl continues: "And as we stumbled on for miles, slipping on
icy spots, supporting each other time and again, dragging one another up and
onward, nothing was said, but we both knew: each of us was thinking of his
wife" (p. 56).
Thoughts
of their loved ones were an important component of that will to meaning that enabled people to
survive. .îFor the first time in my life I saw the truth, as it is set into
songs by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The
truth is that love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which man can
aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and
human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through
love and in love.
I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss,
be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved."(p.
57; italics by Frankl). In that marching column, and on hundreds of other occasions
when Frankl and his comrades were uniting in thoughts with those they loved,
they did not even know if they were alive. "I knew only one thing - which
I have learned well by now: Love goes very far beyond the physical person of
the beloved."(p. 58).
This
escape into the past from the emptiness, spiritual poverty and physical
suffering of the inmates' existence was possible only due to the enormous
intensification of their inner life. Of much greater importance for acquiring a
meaning, in comprehending the why of one's existence, was one's ability to find
both hope and strength in the future, to find a goal to which one could look
forward. "The prisoner who had lost faith in the future - his future - was
doomed. With his loss of belief in the future, he also lost his spiritual hold;
he let himself decline and became subject of mental and physical decay"
(p.95). Frankl recalls, how, in the moments of frustration with the current
situation, overwhelmed with thoughts of trivial things, like where to find a
piece of wire to substitute for a rotten shoe lace, he forced himself into
thoughts about his future after the liberation. He saw himself standing under
bright lights in a lecture hall, before a friendly audience, and giving a
lecture on the psychology of the concentration camp. The manuscript of his
first book on logotherapy, his new theory and method, had been lost with his
coat upon arrival in Auschwitz. At the very first opportunity he began
reconstructing the manuscript. He writes in his Autobiography (Recollections -
RCL) "In my own mind, I am convinced that I owe my survival, among other
things, to my resolve to reconstruct my manuscript. I started to work on it
when I was sick with typhus and tried to keep awake, even at night, to prevent
a vascular collapse. For my 40th birthday an inmate had given me a pencil stub
and "organized" a few small SS-forms. On their empty backs, still
having high fever, I scribbled shorthand notes which I hoped would help me
reconstruct the Ÿrztlische Seelsorge."
For
a concentration camp inmate, to lose faith in the future was a tragedy,
resulting in death. That happened quite suddenly, in the form of a crisis. Its
symptoms were familiar to the inmates, and its consequences were unavoidable.
People knew "who was going to be the next."
By
the end of war, the loss of faith in the future took an almost mystical form.
Frankl recalls that a friend of his, a fairly well known composer and
librettist, told him in February, 1945, that he had had a dream, in which a
voice had told him the exact date of their liberation: March 30th. At that time
the man was still full of hope, and believed that the prophecy was true. The
promised day approached, but no signs of imminent liberation were seen. On
March 29th, he developed a high fever. On the day of the prophecy, March 30th,
he became delirious and lost consciousness. Next day he was dead. To Frankl,
and to the camp doctor there was no doubt: he had died of typhus. "To
those who know how close the connection is between the state of mind of a man -
his courage and hope, or lack of them - and the state of immunity of his body
will understand that the sudden loss of hope and courage can have a deadly
effect. The ultimate cause of my friend's death was that the expected
liberation did not come and he was severely disappointed. This suddenly lowered
his body's resistance against the latent typhus infection. His faith in the
future and his will to live had become paralyzed and his body fell victim to
illness - and thus the voice of his dream was right after all" (p. 97).
That
case of an "unexplained" death was not a unique event. Between
Christmas, 1944, and the New Year of 1945, the death rate in Frankl's camp
increased beyond all possible expectations: and this is against the background
of no visible deterioration of either working or living conditions in the camp.
"It was simply, that the majority of the prisoners had lived in the naÔve
hope that they would be home again by Christmas. As the time drew near and
there was no encouraging news, the prisoners lost courage and disappointment
overcame them. This had a dangerous influence on their powers of resistance and
a great number of them died" (p. 97).
Both
the past
and the future
of the prisoner were instrumental in his or her survival in a concentration
camp. What about the present? The present was filled with suffering, both
physical and spiritual. But for somebody who had already acquired the strength
and inner freedom even that dreadful present became full of meaning.
Perhaps
some of the prisoners who had been religious in their previous lives lost
faith. But in those who had not lost the faith, or had even just acquired faith
in the camp, religious feelings were "the most sincere imaginable. The
depth and vigor of religious belief often surprised and moved a new arrival.
Most impressive in this connection were improvised prayers or services in the
corner of a hut, or in the darkness of the locked cattle truck in which we were
brought back from a distant work site, tired, hungry and frozen in our ragged
clothing" (p. 54). Years
after the liberation, Frankl wrote (MSUM, p. 19): "The truth is that among
those who actually went through the experience of Auschwitz, the number of
those whose religious life was deepened – in spite of, not because of,
this experience – by far exceeds the number of those who gave up their
belief."
Art
existed in the camps. Tired, hungry, and frozen people composed music, drew
pictures, and wrote poetry. There were even makeshift "concerts,"
with good music, songs, and even humor.
Against
all odds, the aesthetic feeling, the ability to see the beautiful in nature,
had not disappeared. An exhausted man might draw the attention of a friend
working next to him to a view of the setting sun through the trees of a winter
forest. Frankl recalls: "One evening, when we were already resting on the
floor of our hut, dead tired, soup bowls in hand, a fellow prisoner rushed in
and asked us to run to the assembly grounds and see the wonderful sunset.
Standing outside we saw sinister clouds glowing in the west and the whole sky
alive with clouds of ever-changing shapes and colors, from steel blue to blood
red. The desolate gray mud huts provided a sharp contrast, while the puddles on
the muddy ground reflected the glowing sky. Then, after minutes of moving
silence, one prisoner said to another, 'How beautiful the world could be!'"(pp. 59-60;
italics by Frankl).
But
perhaps the most important feature of the present in the inhuman
conditions of the concentration camp was the feeling of responsibility that was so strong in
the inmates who had not lost their inner freedom: the responsibility for their
future, their loved ones, and their fellow prisoners.
New
regulations were issued by the camp authorities: death for any even petty
violations of the regime that could be interpreted as sabotage. A few days
before a semi-starving prisoner had stolen a few pounds of potatoes. Many
prisoners knew who the "burglar" was. The authorities threatened that
if the guilty man was not given up, the whole camp would starve for a day.
"Naturally, 2,500 men preferred to fast." It was not quite natural in
those conditions. Just imagine: there was not a single man who decided to
betray his comrade, although a reward - some benefits, perhaps extra food or
easier work could have made a difference in the life-death race.
Frankl writes (MSM, p. 52): "Sigmund Freud
once said, 'Let us attempt to expose a number of most diverse people uniformly
to hunger. With the increase of the imperative urge of hunger all individual
differences will blur, and in their stead will appear the uniform expression of
the one un-stilled urge.' In the concentration camps, however, the reverse was
true. People became more diverse. The beast was unmasked - and so was the
saint. The hunger was the same but people were different. In truth, calories do
not count."
And,
of course, the strong helped the weak. On quite a few occasions Frankl himself
tried to do his utmost to strengthen his comrades' resistance to the physical
and moral decay and degeneration that the camp existence promulgated: from
un-intrusive conversations to collective psychotherapeutic (in fact, logotherapeutic) sessions, at the
outcome of which people thanked him with tears in their eyes. (pp. 103-105).
Although
Frankl modestly notices that "...only too rarely had I the inner strength
to make contact with my companions in suffering and that I must have missed
many opportunities for doing so"(p. 105), he was doubtless one of those
who "...walked through the huts comforting others, giving away the last
piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient
proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the
human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to
chose one's own way" (p. 86).
In
order to prove that something is not, one has to prove that every possible example of
that something is not. While, if one wants to prove that something is, just one example would
be enough. Viktor Frankl's account of his experience as a concentration camp
prisoner gives these examples, and not just one, but many. The examples of
people whose will for meaning was stronger than death.
MEANING...
There is a meaning in
life, ... it is available to everyone and, even more, ... life retains its
meaning under any conditions. It remains meaningful literally up to its last
moment, up to one's last breath.
Viktor E. Frankl,
"The Unheard Cry For Meaning.
Meaning...
What is it? In his Autobiography (RCL) Frankl writes: "As early as 1929 I
developed the concept of three groups of values, three possibilities to find
meaning in life - up to the last moment, the last breath. These three
possibilities are: 1) a deed we do, a work we create, 2) an experience, a human
encounter and love, and 3) when confronted with an unchangeable fate (such as
an incurable disease, an inoperable cancer) a change of attitudes. In such
cases we still can wrest meaning from life by becoming witness of the most
human of all human capacities: the ability to turn suffering into human
triumph."
These
three "possibilities" to find a meaning seem to be so simple and easy
to understand. But a meaning cannot be learned or taught, or shared. As a
matter of fact, there is no such a thing as a universal meaning for everyone.
"Meaning" is always personal, the meaning. In other
words, life gives the individual an assignment, and one has to learn what that
assignment is. But what is important," the true meaning of life is to be
discovered in the world rather than within man or his own psyche, as if it were
a closed system."(MSM p. 133). Frankl stresses that finding a meaning in
life inevitably requires what he calls "self transcendence" - rising
above one's own self: "being human always points, and is directed, to something,
or someone, other than oneself - be it a meaning to fulfill or another human
being to encounter.... The more one forgets himself - by giving himself to a
cause to serve, or another person to love - the more human he is and the more
he actualizes himself." In another book (PES, p. 24) Frankl writes:
"What man is, he ultimately becomes through the cause which he has made
his own."
And
here are the three possibilities:
"Work We Create"
We
spend over a third of our time working. To most people a job is a necessary and
unavoidable way of earning one's living. Americans work hard. If you wish, it
is an American tradition that began first with the colonists and then was taken
over by the generations of immigrants, who came to America in search of a new
and better life. The American Dream of affluence and success has been driving
millions of people to work hard.
At
the beginning of the 21st century, working hard, for most of the people, does
not mean merely fighting for survival any more. The American middle class has
emerged; the majority of Americans live in their own homes. Even the American
"poor" are believed to be "the richest poor in the world."
In spite of accusations fired at each other by politicians, the living standard
of an average American family is higher than that in Europe, although it is
steadily going down.
Americans
are still working hard, but their work has lost the original existential
meaning of necessary effort for survival. Americans still believe that any work
is good that brings in money - and the more, the better. But this belief is no
longer valid. It has been destroyed by the boredom of a dull, unfulfilling
job. And yet not many understand that only that job is good that is fulfilling. In addition, a job has
become more and more difficult to find, and losing a job becomes a tragedy. But
this boredom does not originate from the jobs themselves: it is a result of our
attitude.
Being unemployed is a tragedy because a job is
the only source of livelihood for most people. However, from the existential
point of view, "The jobless man experiences the emptiness of his time as
inner emptiness, as an emptiness of his conscience. He feels useless because he
is unoccupied. Having no work, he thinks, life has no meaning" (DAS, p. 121).
As a contrast to that feeling, in the same book Frankl quotes an ad in a London
newspaper of a man for whom work is a mode of creative existence:
"Unemployed. Brilliant mind offers its services completely free; the
survival of the body must be provided for by adequate salary" (p. xviii)
Logotherapy claims that work, a
process that takes so much time from our life, may be a source of meaning,
direction, fulfillment, for many an important source of meaning, for some the
only source.
The
job becomes that well of meaning and fulfillment, if it is creative. The word itself means
creating something new that did not exist before: not only in the sense of
revolutionizing technologies, discovering new principles in science, or
creating an art masterpiece, but most often just participating in a modest and
unambitious process of gaining knowledge, trust, kindness, love... This
quality is of a fundamentally subjective character. The job does not contain
creativity in itself. A white-color job can be boring, and a job of a volunteer
helping kids to cross the street fulfilling and exciting. The one who is doing
the work can make it unique: creative and interesting, or dull and boring.
It is only a matter of attitude.
For
a job to be creative, one does not have to have a high IQ or to be highly
educated. One has only to find the meaning in that job, make it a part of one's
personality. The only role that education plays in this process is facilitating
the finding of this unique meaning. One's horizons are wider, one's
understanding of the world is better, and oneís identification with society is
deeper through education.
I spent a 1979-80 academic year in Germany doing
research at a university. Every day, at about 5 P.M., I heard a knock on my
office door and an elderly lady janitor entered with a broad smile and a
"Guten Abend, Herr Professor." Then she began her daily routine:
cleaning my office. She knew that her job was extremely important, for without
it, we, the "egg-heads" of the fifth floor, would perish in the dirt
and disorder of our offices. She lifted every single sheet of paper on my desk
and dusted beneath. Whatever papers were scattered around were carefully piled
up and secured on the desk corner. I did not speak German, she did not speak
English, but we both knew that what she was doing was important. Of course I could live
without the daily dusting of my papers; she could not. And I agreed with her.
From the existential point of view we - "the egg-heads" in the
offices around, and herself - were equal: we each did the work we loved and
believed to be important. And, whenever a party was held she was always a part
of it: a loved and respected member of the fifth floor community...
This
role of education is important. In my view, the main factor that has
exacerbated our crisis is the degradation of our educational system. It simply
has been failing to raise an individual above the level of immaturity. And maturity means meaningfulness.
That is why a way out of the crisis, quite possibly the only way, is in a
dramatic improvement in our educational system.
Today
creative and fulfilling work is the destiny of only the few. To the rest it is
an unpleasant and boring duty. 50 million Americans hate their jobs! Perhaps the
most regretful aspect of our life is that we teach our children that a boring
job is all right. We encourage them to start working as early as possible with
the only purpose: learning how to make money. Approximately 4 to 5 million
teenagers work part time during school year; I wonder if anybody studied if our
working children were among those 50 million...
However,
even a boring job has an important quality: it fills time. When even this dull
and boring work is over (and the work may be difficult, requiring the
concentration of both mental and physical energy) an individual feels lost.
Frankl, in one of his books, describes a "Sunday neuroses" - people
do not know how to kill time. Typically, two options are used: shopping and the
reliable and never failing TV. Frankl writes (DAS, p. 127): "...people who
know no goal in life are running the course of life at the highest possible
speed so that they will not notice the aimlessness of it. They are at the same
time trying to run away from themselves - but in vain. On Sunday, when the
frantic race pauses for twenty-four hours, all the aimlessness,
meaninglessness, and emptiness of their existence rises up before them once
more."
Of
course, there are jobs that are very difficult to make "creative,"
among them jobs requiring the monotonous repetition of a similar operation,
such as a job at a conveyer belt. With the development of new computerized
technologies and robotics, those jobs will gradually disappear, giving people
virtually unlimited opportunities to realize their innate creativity. This,
however, will require an educational level for which the American school today
does not prepare.
With
the advancement of technology, the amount of leisure time is increasing. This
is both a curse and a blessing: It is a curse, if an individual does not have a
task,
a mission
in his or her life. Then any means of killing that leisure time will be good:
from meaningless TV watching and video and computer games to gambling and
drugs. It will be a blessing if a mission does exist. Then it will require the
concentration of all the individual's abilities, and will need more time than
one can normally afford: no time will be enough. A good education will give an
individual the basis, the foundation for the future meaningful and happy life.
"Human Encounter and Love"
The
basis of meaningfulness of human existence is one's singularity, one's uniqueness. But an individual can
actualize the creative values of his/her personality only through the external
world: through something done for people. In response, the world, "the
community" confers meaning upon the individual's uniqueness and
singularity. In fact, the external world becomes an indispensable part of one's
personality.
It
enters one's personality in two ways: through the "impersonal" effect
of Nature, Books, Music, Art and Culture in general (recall the role of these
factors in strengthening the will to survive in the Nazi concentration camps!),
and through encounters with people.
Martin
Buber, a great Jewish religious philosopher, once said: "Behind every
meeting, every encounter - responsibility." To those who agree with Buber,
there is only one answer to the question "Am I my brother's keeper?"
- spewed by Cain in self defense: "Yes, I am the keeper of my brothers -
all over the world!"
The
fact that most people do not think that way does not mean that the idea of
"global responsibility" is idealistic delirium and nonsense.
Thousands and thousands of young men and women, in 1936-37, left their families
and jobs and joined the International Brigades in Spain to fight Fascism. Too often
those brave people were accused of being Communists. Not all of them were.
George Orwell, the author of immortal "1984," who hated all kinds of
totalitarianism, fought in Spain. His book: "Homage to Catalonia" is
a legacy of those years. The world was indifferent, but those people knew that
Spain was just the beginning. They were right: the Second World War erupted
just a couple of years later.
After
Pearl Harbor, thousands upon thousands of young Americans volunteered for the
Armed Forces to fight the Nazis, although they could have gone on with their
studies or with their civilian work important for the military. And two decades
later, thousands upon thousands of Americans of the next generation joined the
"Peace Corps" to fight disease and illiteracy in the Third World.
In
the everyday life of most people the idea of "global responsibility"
- even if the individual does subscribe to it - is pushed off by small deeds
and smaller responsibilities. And it is all right as far as the
responsibilities exist. But too often the feeling of responsibility - in
encounters with people - is frustrated. It is only partly to be blamed on the
individual. Erich Fromm, one of the greatest psychologists of the 20th century,
wrote in his immortal book "The Art of Loving:" "From birth to
death, from Monday to Monday, from morning to evening - all activities are
routinized, and prefabricated. How should a man caught in this net of routine
not forget that he is a man, a unique individual, one who is given only this
one chance of living, with hopes and disappointments, with sorrow and fear,
with the longing for love and the dread of the nothing and of
separateness?" (p. 14)
This
is exactly the existential vacuum that Viktor Frankl is discussing in his books.
But it is up to the individual to escape from this vacuum into the freedom of
meaning. Then "the nothing" and "the separateness" will
disappear, giving way to constructive and creative encounters with people, with
their "hopes and disappointments, sorrow and fear."
Love,
the main object and concern of Erich Fromm's book, is something that cannot be
compared in its importance to any other existential category in human life,
except, perhaps death. It has been the object of discussion and analysis of the
greatest philosophers and scientists since the human race has distinguished
itself from the animal horde. Human poetry is almost exclusively about love.
The
great Sigmund Freud attempted to reduce love to elementary instincts
originating from the Pleasure Principle. Viktor Frankl returns to love its human,
existential
character.
Discussing
the meaning
of love Frankl writes (DAS, p. 135): "Loving represents a coming to a
relationship with another as a spiritual being. The close connection with
spiritual aspects of the partner is the ultimate attainable form of
partnership. The lover is no longer aroused in his own physical being, nor
stirred in his own emotionality, but moved to the depths of his spiritual core,
moved by the partner's spiritual core. Love, then, is an entering into direct
relationship with the personality of the beloved, with the beloved's uniqueness
and singularity."
Frankl
stresses that, although love is as primary a phenomenon as sex, normally sex is
only a mode of expression for love, its culmination. "Sex is justified,
even sanctified, as soon as, but only as long as, it is a vehicle of love. Thus
love is not understood as a mere side-effect of sex: rather, sex is a way of
expressing the experience of the ultimate togetherness which is called
love."(MSM, p. 134)
On
the societal level, this confusion inevitably brings about a devaluation of
sex: "Like any kind of inflation – e.g., that on the monetary market
– sexual inflation is associated with a devaluation: sex is devaluated
inasmuch as it is dehumanized. Thus we observe a trend to living a sexual life
that is not integrated into one's personal life, but rather is lived out for
the sake of pleasure. Such a depersonalization of sex is a symptom of
existential frustration: the frustration of man's search for meaning."(UCM,
p. 93)
The
confusion of sex for love in the psyche of millions of people, resulting in the
degradation of love and proliferation of sex, both in America and throughout
the world, is doubtless a manifestation of the frustration of meaning and the
deep existential crisis. I discuss this problem at length also in other essays
of this book.
By the way, logotherapy suggests a method of
treating sexual neuroses based on the phenomenon called paradoxical
intention.
Logotherapy claims, "The more the man aims at pleasure by way of direct
intention, the more he misses his aim". (PAE, p. 21). This is true not
only with regard to pleasure. Quite often, an achievement is just a
"by-product" of an effort, not a directed objective of it. Thus, the
opposite situation should somehow be explored. For example, if an individual
stammers, rather than trying not to stammer, one should force oneself to
stammer as strongly as possible! Frankl relates to many cases when a short paradoxical
intention
treatment cured people who had been suffering for years from stammering,
perspiration phobias, sleeplessness, and impotence. But Frankl stresses, that
as a method of treatment, "Logotherapy is ultimately education towards
responsibility; the patient must push forward independently towards the
concrete meaning of his own existence" (DAS, p. xvi).
"The Unchangeable Fate"
In
his book "Psychotherapy and Existentialism" (PAE) Viktor Frankl
writes: "We have seen that there exists not only a will to pleasure and a
will to power but also a will to meaning. Now we see further: We have not only
the possibility of giving a meaning to our life by creative acts and beyond
that by the experience of Truth, Beauty, and Kindness, of Nature, Culture, and
human beings in their uniqueness and individuality, and of love; we have not
only the possibility of making life meaningful by creating and loving, but also
by suffering - so that when we can no longer change our fate by action, what
matters is the right attitude towards fate."
This
third avenue to meaning is, perhaps, the most important one. Too often we
forget that suffering is an unavoidable and ineradicable part of human life.
Without it, life could not be complete. Suffering - albeit in unequal degrees -
accompanies us through all our lives, eventually terminating in death. Finding
meaning
in suffering is not as much the ability to cope with suffering and not letting
it destroy oneself, but the possibility of "rising above oneself," "growing
beyond oneself,"
and thus "changing oneself." In "Man's Search for Meaning"
(MSM p. 88) Frankl writes: "Here lies a chance for a man either to make
use or to forgo the opportunities of attaining the moral values that a
difficult situation may afford him. And this decides whether he is worthy of
his sufferings or not." And a few pages later: "When a man finds that
it is his destiny to suffer, he will have to accept his suffering as his task;
his single and unique task. He will have to acknowledge the fact that even in
suffering he is unique and alone in the universe. No one can relieve him of his
suffering or suffer in his place. His unique opportunity lies in the way in
which he bears his burden" (p. 99) Frankl proves that a human being "may
turn a personal tragedy into a triumph."
It is usually believed that the main reason for
the desire to commit suicide in terminally ill adults derives from physical
suffering. Researchers studying the psychology of assisted suicide have
discovered, however, that only a third of those contemplating suicide are motivated
by this. In the majority of terminally ill patients the leading factors driving
their desire to suicide are "fear of a loss of control or dignity, or
being a burden, and of being dependent"(Peter Edelman, The Atlantic
Monthly, March, 1977, p. 75). A human being can cope with severe pain; but it
is the inability to comply with human standards that makes life unbearable and
impossible...
The
Nazi concentration camps witnessed thousands of examples of such human triumph
that a Freudian man with his will to pleasure is incapable of. Our
everyday life also gives us examples of this unbreakable will for meaning.
Among
them professor of Cambridge University and perhaps the most distinguished
theoretical physicist of our time, Dr. Stephen Hawking, a victim of Lou
Gehrig's disease, almost completely paralyzed, and unable to speak (a computer
helps him communicate);
Stephen Hawking's mother, Isobel Hawking writes:
"He says himself that he wouldn't have got where he is if he hadn't been
ill. And I think it is quite possible"[2]
America
is proud of Helen Keller. But not many remember another name: that of her
teacher, Anne Sullivan. Helen was able to overcome her handicaps ‚– she
was blind, deaf and mute – to become an author and one of the most
cultured people of her time. Her teacher Anne Sullivan herself semi-blind, has
made the tremendously difficult, seemingly impossible task – that became
her mission
– of turning a frightened and angry little animal – seven-year-old
Helen – into a human being. That mission filled all Anne
Sullivan's life, became her only objective[3].
This is an almost mystical example of an individual who "had grown above
herself," who made the life of another human being more important than
that of her own.
Another
hero – also the one America will always be proud of – is its great
president, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, whose imprint on this country's destiny
simply cannot be overestimated. A disabled man, a tragic victim of polio that
struck when his political career was only beginning, he, by inhuman willpower,
was able to turn his disability into the most powerful stimulus of his life.
When he, with the help of a body-guard or one of his sons, smiling broadly - as
he always did - walked towards the podium, most of the nation did not know that he
actually was unable to walk. It was an imitation, a pretense forced by FDR's
enormous physical and moral strength!
The
list of people, who have turned their suffering into human triumph, is long,
and each of them deserves a monument in the pantheon of Mankind. The examples
above were just names from the books and magazines scattered on my desk while I
was writing this essay.
I will never forget seeing a blind man skiing on
a down-hill slope in New Hampshire (with an assistant skiing before him with a sign:
"Attention, a blind person skiing!"), or a smiling and excited young
woman with paralyzed legs, being helped by two volunteers in loading her sledge
to a ski lift on Mt. Attitash; later I saw her "skiing" down a
difficult slope. I am proud to belong to the same species as those two people
and many thousands of others, who have won over their disability and turned
tragedy into a human triumph.
But
the inhuman ordeal of an extreme handicap is the fate of the relatively few,
while the everyday sufferings of millions are the reality of "normal"
life. In his books, Frankl gives quite a few examples of how people can
"rise above themselves" and "grow beyond themselves." He
also shows how the ideas of logotherapy can help people to understand the why of their suffering and
thus give them the how which enables them to cope with that why: from a personal
tragedy of loss of loved ones, to a tragedy of a prison inmate whose life seems
to be over.
Frankl relates his
conversation with a patient, a physician, who could not overcome the loss of
his wife, whom he loved above everything in the world. Two years had passed
since the death, but the patient's depression would not subside. Here is the
conversation:
F.: "What would
have happened, Doctor, if you had died first, and your wife would have had to
survive you?"
P.: "Oh, for her
this would have been terrible; how she would have suffered!"
F.: "You see,
Doctor, such a suffering has been spared of her, and it was you who have spared
her this suffering - to be sure, at the price that now you have to survive and
mourn her,"
Frankl concludes:
"He said no word but shook my hand and calmly left my office. In some way,
suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the
meaning of sacrifice" (MSM, p. 135)
In his book "The
Unheard Cry For Meaning" (UCM), Frankl also quotes from two letters from
inmates of American (Florida) prisons: "I have found true meaning in my
existence even here, in prison. I find purpose in my life, and this time I have
left is just a short wait for the opportunity to do better and to do
more." Another letter: "During the past several months a group of
inmates has been sharing your books and your tapes. Yes, one of the greatest
meanings we can be privileged to experience is suffering. I have just begun to
live, and what a glorious feeling it is! I am constantly humbled by the tears
of my brothers in our group when they can see that they are even now achieving
meanings they never thought possible. The changes are truly miraculous. Lives
which heretofore have been hopeless and helpless now have meaning. ... From the
barbed wire and chimney of Auschwitz rises the sun... My, what a new day must
be in store." (p. 47)
These
are Frankl's three possibilities of acquiring a meaning. But how can one acquire that meaning? Dr. Joseph Fabry
devoted his book Guideposts to Meaning[4] to the difficult task of
step-by-step guiding the reader towards understanding what really matters in
one's life. Dr. Fabry suggests that one should involve oneself in a Socratic
dialogues:
- the dialogues inside oneself - that would facilitate finding the meaning.
Five guideposts should
be probed, in the areas where the meaning is most likely to be found:
"1. Self-discovery.
The more you find out about your real self behind all the masks you put on for
self protection, the more meaning you will discover.
2. Choice. The more
choices you see in your situation, the more meaning will become available.
3. Uniqueness. You will
be most likely to find meaning in situations where you are not easily replaced
by someone else.
4. Responsibility. Your
life will be meaningful if you learn to take responsibility where you have
freedom of choice, and if you learn not to feel responsible where you face an
unalterable fate,
5. Self-transcendence.
Meaning comes to you when you reach beyond your egocentricity towards
others" (p. 10).
And
yet, there is no easy and ready prescription for everyone. Viktor Frankl's
advice: listen carefully to what your life requires of you. Listen to your
conscience. Think. Be patient, do not hurry. One day you will know. But this
may be a long and difficult road till you have reached your destination...
"Homo Patiens"
The
urge to have a meaning in one's life, the will for meaning, is an indispensable
quality of a "homo patiens" – "the suffering man, the man
who knows how to suffer, how to mold even his sufferings into a human
achievement" – the term coined by Frankl. He writes (UCM, p. 46):
"Usually, man is seen as the homo sapiens, the clever man who has
know-how, who knows how to be a success, how to be a successful businessman or
a successful playboy, that is, how to be successful in making money or in
making love. The homo sapiens moves between the positive extreme of success and
its negative counterpart, failure." But there is another dimension to
human life. The homo patiens moves on an axis perpendicular to that of the Homo
sapiens. It
extends between the poles of fulfillment ("plus") and despair
("minus"): the fulfillment of one's self through the fulfillment of
meaning, and the despair over the apparent meaninglessness of one's life.
This
visual interpretation of our existential stand (see the diagram below) is very
helpful in understanding the real life situations. A wealthy individual who has
achieved complete success in his/her life may find himself/herself in the
extreme negative on the homo patiens scale, if that individual's life is devoid of
meaning and direction. It may be not only a rock-, or movie-, or athletic star,
but also a successful medical doctor or a lawyer, or even an elected official.
On
the other hand, a modest individual who can hardly exist on a meager salary or
a pension – and is, of course, far from achieving "success"
from the point of view accepted in our society, perhaps is even a
"loser" – may be fully content and happy, doing work that is unique and important: as my modest janitor,
the nameless hospital volunteers, the people giving their time to charity. An
extreme case is of course a prison inmate who can find a new meaning in
suffering.

The
upper right-hand corner of Frankl's diagram is not empty either. I have read of
a successful lawyer who found time in his busy schedule to help out in the
maternity ward of a hospital: they needed "human hands" - just to lull
babies abandoned by their mothers in order that they might feel "mother's
warmth." In 1995 a story made headlines in the Boston press: about a
factory owner who, after his factory was destroyed by fire continued paying
salaries to his workers until the factory began functioning again. Bill Gates,
the head of Microsoft and a multi-billionaire, has spent hundreds of millions
of dollars promoting health care and education in Africa. And he is not alone:
thousands of prominent leaders of industry, culture and sports selflessly give
their money and their time to projects making the world better.
The
lower left-hand corner of the diagram is occupied by the underclass who were
unable to achieve either material success or meaning in their lives...
Where
could American teenagers be placed on this diagram? They have not yet started
moving along the Failure-Success continuum: They have no bank accounts, credit
cards, or careers. They may be
placed only at the vertical Fulfillment-Despair axis). Many American children will proudly
occupy the Fulfillment part of the axis.
Among those are teenagers doing volunteer work, or raising funds for
humanitarian causes, or being active in their schools' interest clubs, or just
reading a lot – to name just a few spheres of life that bring children
fulfillment. However, most of our
youngsters already know what Despair is.
They are slaves of the pop-culture: anti-intellectual, thoughtless, sex-
and drugs- oriented and noisy. In
fact, in these children's lives the boredom triad (that has been already
discussed) – depression, addiction, and aggression – is the everyday
reality. These children may be
placed only in the negative part of the Fulfillment-Despair axis, and often deep in
the Despair
area (remember the spread of teenagers' depression and suicide). Their lives are boring and empty and
devoid of meaning, they are abandoned by our society, they drift, creating
their own ugly "culture," and nobody is out there to help them...
Happiness...
It
is always difficult to talk about the fundamental existential problems. They are too
personal, even intimate. We rarely discuss them even with people who are really
close to us. In our everyday life there is not much time that, left alone with
our own soul, we can ask ourselves: "Where am I? What am I? What do I live
for?" And yet, it is important to go on asking these questions again and
again: even if only in order to prevent our souls from "falling
asleep."
For
a skeptical reader who still believes that what Frankl is saying is just an
"abstract philosophy," which is difficult, if not impossible, to
implement in everyday life, I would like to quote from an article published
sometime in the middle 80s in a Boston North Shore newspaper. In my files I
found one page: a Xerox copy of just some 50 lines (two short columns) from
that article.
I
do not know what newspaper it was published in; the author's name is also
missing. But I am deeply grateful to that individual for what he or she wrote,
and I regret that I do not know the name, to be able to personally express my
gratitude to that individual. That article was important to me at that time,
for when I read it, I did not know of either Viktor Frankl or logotherapy. Perhaps, the article's
author did not know either. But that article is an excellent and thoughtful
interpretation of Frankl's ideas. Let me reproduce here the whole text as I
have it on that Xerox page.
In television series LateNight America, I
learned from experts that only 20 percent Americans are happy, which prompted
me during the last year to talk about happiness with psychiatrists, psychologists,
educators, religious leaders and many other successful Americans. All agree
that happiness comes to us as a direct result of high self-esteem, a positive
attitude and the way in which we relate to other people. It's not as
complicated as we make it out to be. But happiness may be different from what
we think it is.
Happiness, I have learned, is a feeling of
contentment and peace of mind. Life is a mixed bag of joy and sadness, laughter
and tears, pain and growth. Happy people accept the whole package, realizing
that happiness is only a part of life's puzzle.
Unfortunately, too many Americans have swallowed
a bill of goods which states that happiness can be achieved 24 hours a day and
will be found in success, fame, possessions, and marrying or having a
relationship with the right individual.
I've discovered that, to be happy, we must have
something to do, someone or something to love, and something to hope for. Our
work must give us a sense of pride and satisfaction, use of our special talents
and abilities, and provide us with the opportunity for recognition and
contribution. If we work only for money at a job we hate, we deny ourselves the
chance to be happy.
To be happy we must live for something outside
ourselves - another individual or people, a cause, a belief in God. To live
only for ourselves is to exist in a world of one - and that brings misery. To
be happy we must have hope, which is our commitment of time and energy to the
future. We need to dream. To have no dream is to have no hope, and to have no
hope is to have no reason to live.
The
above may be, in essence, summarized as a formula of ultimate happiness. This
is also the Frankl formula. Like any mathematical formula, which does not make
sense unless some numbers are put into it, the formula of ultimate happiness,
in order to work, requires the actions of a whole life. It is simple:
Live a life that
multiplies good; so that when you are about to leave, the Earth is
better - even though
just a little bit - than it was when you came to this world -
and this is because
of the life you have lived! If, though only once in your life, you
saw tears of
gratitude in the eyes of a stranger, whom you may never see again,
the formula worked!
Years
ago, after a lecture at an American university, a student asked Viktor Frankl:
"You talk so much about meaning. But what is the meaning in your life?" "What
do you think the meaning in my life is?" - Frankl addressed a student
standing next to him. "I believe the meaning in your life is to help people
find meaning in theirs," - was the answer.
And
I would like to finish this essay with the words of Viktor Frankl (DAS, p.
139): "We must never be content with what has already been achieved. Life
never ceases to put new questions to us, never permits us to come to rest. Only
self-narcotization keeps us insensible to the eternal pricks with which life
with its endless succession of demands stings our conscience. The man who
stands still is passed by; the man who is smugly contented loses himself. Neither
in creating nor experiencing may we rest content with achievement; every day,
every hour makes deeds necessary and new experiences possible."
References
to Viktor Frankl's books:
MSM:
Viktor
E. Frankl Man's Search for Meaning, Washington Square Press, New York,
1985
UCM: Viktor
E. Frankl The Unheard Cry for Meaning: Psychotherapy and Humanism, Washington Square Press, New York, 1985
PAE: Viktor E. Frankl, Psychotherapy and
Existentialism,
Washington Square Press, New
York, 1985,
DAS: Viktor E. Frankl The Doctor and the Soul:
From Psychotherapy to Logotherapy, Vintage Book, New
York, 1973
RCL: Viktor E. Frankl, Recollections: An
Autobiography
(English translation by Joseph and
Judith Fabry), Plenum Publishing House in London, 1997
MSUM:
Viktor E. Frankl. Manís Search for Ultimate Meaning. Boston: Beacon Press.
Plenum Press, New York
About
the author:
Genrich
L. Krasko is a retired physicist still affiliated with Massachusetts Institute
of Technology, Cambridge, MA. He lives in Peabody, MA with his wife Zeya. (E-mail:
gen.krasko1@verizon.net).
* This essay is based on
a chapter from the author's currently published book: This Unbearable
Boredom of Being: The Crisis of Meaning in America (http://web.mit.edu/gkrasko/www/SearchingForMeaning.html), iUniverse, 2004.
Shortly before his death in 1997, Viktor Frankl wrote a Foreword for the
book. A short version of this
essay was previously published in the Spring-Summer, 1997, issue (vol. 5, No 1)
of Journals des Viktor-Frankl-Instituts (Vienna, Austria), p. 82.
[1] Dr. Fabry is also the founder of the "Institute of Logotherapy" - a research and educational institution dedicated to promoting the meaning-oriented methods of Viktor Frankl and his followers. The current Institute's address: Hardin Simmons University, P.O.Box 15211, Abilene, TX 79698. I deeply appreciate Dr. Fabry's assistance: sending me the manuscript of Viktor Frankl's Autobiography prior to its publication, and very helpful correspondence (the following quote is from one of Dr. Fabry's letters).
[2] Stephen Hawking's A Brief History of Time: A Reader's Companion, p. 110.
[3] See an excellent book: Dorothy Herrmann, Hellen Keller. A Life. The University of Chicago Press, 1998.
[4] Joseph Fabry, Guideposts to Meaning. Discovering What Really Matters. New Harbinger Pubns Inc, 1988.
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